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uhmmm she is sooo obvioulsy still pissed about it... and is acting extremely childish... sorry you are going thru this right now... i would suggest you ask her to go to lunch with you or something and make sure its just the two of you... you need to talk face to face!!
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If she won't answer my texts or answer the phone, doesn't call me, how can this be done. I'm gonna keep chasing her? I 've done my part with apologizing when I didn't do anything wrong.
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Posted by Iluvpoodles
If she won't answer my texts or answer the phone, doesn't call me, how can this be done. I'm gonna keep chasing her? I 've done my part with apologizing when I didn't do anything wrong.
you said she is answering some texts... ask her to meet you for lunch that way...
you have to talk to her about this because you'll never be comfortable about it or her until you do...
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when is she due?
I was going through something similar with my MOH.. but after THREE MONTHS we finally hung out this past weekend. She did the same thing to me as yours is doing to you... would chat via text and facebook.. but not on the phone or in person.
honestly- try and wait it out a little... I was freaking out. FH and I decided that come March if she was still acting like that, we'd ask her to step down. But now I don't think it'll come to that.. I think we just hit a little rough patch.
My advice to you- Wait until after Christmas... don't pressure her.. her hormones are going CRAZY right now. She might say she's not mad... and she shouldn't be... but it sounds like she is. You also don't know what other ppl are feeding her.
I mean, I don't know her, or you, or her family.. but I know how it was in my situation and her family (and friends) were feeding her a bunch of bull... saying that I didn't care about her and other stuff- which she KNEW was not true, but started to believe it... so your MOHs family might feed her the same stuff... most people are 'selfish' in the sense that it was her special day and you chose your FH's health over her babyshower (not saying that's a bad thing, I would have done the same thing- actually.. thinking back- I DID!)
Def give her some time.... wait until after the baby is born. Visit her in the hospital when she has the baby.. (no one will stop you from seeing her then) as for the gifts. hold on to them. don't fedex them because then it looks like you just want to get them out of your house and that you don't care about the relationship. If you can't deliver them by hand now- do it later.
or do it when you know no one is home... wrap them all nice and leave them outside the door with a note saying 'sorry I missed you, wanted to drop off your gifts and chat, but you're not home. call me'
write it on a napkin or scrap paper so it looks like it wasn't planned.
GOOD LUCK!![]()
I was going through something similar with my MOH.. but after THREE MONTHS we finally hung out this past weekend. She did the same thing to me as yours is doing to you... would chat via text and facebook.. but not on the phone or in person.
honestly- try and wait it out a little... I was freaking out. FH and I decided that come March if she was still acting like that, we'd ask her to step down. But now I don't think it'll come to that.. I think we just hit a little rough patch.
My advice to you- Wait until after Christmas... don't pressure her.. her hormones are going CRAZY right now. She might say she's not mad... and she shouldn't be... but it sounds like she is. You also don't know what other ppl are feeding her.
I mean, I don't know her, or you, or her family.. but I know how it was in my situation and her family (and friends) were feeding her a bunch of bull... saying that I didn't care about her and other stuff- which she KNEW was not true, but started to believe it... so your MOHs family might feed her the same stuff... most people are 'selfish' in the sense that it was her special day and you chose your FH's health over her babyshower (not saying that's a bad thing, I would have done the same thing- actually.. thinking back- I DID!)
Def give her some time.... wait until after the baby is born. Visit her in the hospital when she has the baby.. (no one will stop you from seeing her then) as for the gifts. hold on to them. don't fedex them because then it looks like you just want to get them out of your house and that you don't care about the relationship. If you can't deliver them by hand now- do it later.
or do it when you know no one is home... wrap them all nice and leave them outside the door with a note saying 'sorry I missed you, wanted to drop off your gifts and chat, but you're not home. call me'
write it on a napkin or scrap paper so it looks like it wasn't planned.
GOOD LUCK!
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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess
when is she due?
I was going through something similar with my MOH.. but after THREE MONTHS we finally hung out this past weekend. She did the same thing to me as yours is doing to you... would chat via text and facebook.. but not on the phone or in person.
honestly- try and wait it out a little... I was freaking out. FH and I decided that come March if she was still acting like that, we'd ask her to step down. But now I don't think it'll come to that.. I think we just hit a little rough patch.
My advice to you- Wait until after Christmas... don't pressure her.. her hormones are going CRAZY right now. She might say she's not mad... and she shouldn't be... but it sounds like she is. You also don't know what other ppl are feeding her.
I mean, I don't know her, or you, or her family.. but I know how it was in my situation and her family (and friends) were feeding her a bunch of bull... saying that I didn't care about her and other stuff- which she KNEW was not true, but started to believe it... so your MOHs family might feed her the same stuff... most people are 'selfish' in the sense that it was her special day and you chose your FH's health over her babyshower (not saying that's a bad thing, I would have done the same thing- actually.. thinking back- I DID!)
Def give her some time.... wait until after the baby is born. Visit her in the hospital when she has the baby.. (no one will stop you from seeing her then) as for the gifts. hold on to them. don't fedex them because then it looks like you just want to get them out of your house and that you don't care about the relationship. If you can't deliver them by hand now- do it later.
or do it when you know no one is home... wrap them all nice and leave them outside the door with a note saying 'sorry I missed you, wanted to drop off your gifts and chat, but you're not home. call me'
write it on a napkin or scrap paper so it looks like it wasn't planned.
GOOD LUCK!![]()
She's due next month. I would never fed ex her the gift, it's just me venting lol. But yeah FH said it's probably her hormones and stuff. I guess I can try one last time to see if she wants to get together or something and if she still doesn't respond, I guess I'll just have to hold on to the gift and give it to her when I see her. I would rather not leave it for her outside, with my luck someone will walk by and steal them lol.
