REALLY NEED YOUR PRAYERS....... (URINE TEST UP DATE)

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Posted by 040508Bride

blood in urine could be so many things, most of which are pretty minor....you should ask to go WITH him to the doctor. It's not fair that he has you on edge, tell him you are concerned and don't want to feel left out. He's your FH and of course you are concerned about him, but i'm sure the fact that he is keeping it a little hush hush is making you nuts. Please don't google 'hematuria or blood in urine' bc 100000000000 things will come up and you'll scare yourself. It can happen with anything as simple as a UTI....try not to stress, and talk to your fiance.

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I agree and know how stubborn men can be - but I think it's time to sit down with FH & let him know that him NOT telling you is hurting you more than any truth could.

Ask if he would mind if you go with him to the doctor. He shouldn't have to deal with this alone - you are going to be his wife and you are in it for the good pee & the bad pee(sorry - had to try and make ya smile).

If he still doesn't like the idea of you coming, let him know how much this is upsetting you and you automatically think the worst and you need some form of relief too....

You have both been in my prayers since I read about this originally - now i'll pray that he HEAR you....

omg i am so sorry to hear that- i hope that he feels better soon

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Posted by WinterBride08

OMG, stephanie....i'm so sorry...you have to be strong for him though....maybe you could try doing a search on google or web md...but you might not even want to....you will definitely be in my prayers..

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do NOT.....do NOT...google this...there is too much crap that will come up and you'll prob just freak out unneccesarily.....we never advise patients to do this. speak with ur fh and ask to go with him to the doctor.

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by WinterBride08

OMG, stephanie....i'm so sorry...you have to be strong for him though....maybe you could try doing a search on google or web md...but you might not even want to....you will definitely be in my prayers..

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do NOT.....do NOT...google this...there is too much crap that will come up and you'll prob just freak out unneccesarily.....we never advise patients to do this. speak with ur fh and ask to go with him to the doctor.

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you're right....I take that back...anything could be causing that symptom...doing a search could be very misleading...I once thought I had cancer because of a search I did, I wasn't thinking...

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Posted by WinterBride08

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by WinterBride08

OMG, stephanie....i'm so sorry...you have to be strong for him though....maybe you could try doing a search on google or web md...but you might not even want to....you will definitely be in my prayers..

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do NOT.....do NOT...google this...there is too much crap that will come up and you'll prob just freak out unneccesarily.....we never advise patients to do this. speak with ur fh and ask to go with him to the doctor.

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you're right....I take that back...anything could be causing that symptom...doing a search could be very misleading...I once thought I had cancer because of a search I did, I wasn't thinking...

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exactly. most symptoms can relate to more then one diagnosis. if you do google for something like abdominal pain, surely you will find info about cancer, HIV, pregnancy, STD's, gallstones, muscle spasms....i can go on.......but seriously, best bet is speaking to your Doctor, or a Nurse.



xoxo
<~~LIW Nurse

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by WinterBride08

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Posted by WinterBride08

OMG, stephanie....i'm so sorry...you have to be strong for him though....maybe you could try doing a search on google or web md...but you might not even want to....you will definitely be in my prayers..

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do NOT.....do NOT...google this...there is too much crap that will come up and you'll prob just freak out unneccesarily.....we never advise patients to do this. speak with ur fh and ask to go with him to the doctor.

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you're right....I take that back...anything could be causing that symptom...doing a search could be very misleading...I once thought I had cancer because of a search I did, I wasn't thinking...

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exactly. most symptoms can relate to more then one diagnosis. if you do google for something like abdominal pain, surely you will find info about cancer, HIV, pregnancy, STD's, gallstones, muscle spasms....i can go on.......but seriously, best bet is speaking to your Doctor, or a Nurse.



xoxo
<~~LIW Nurse

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It's so true, my dad did this when he was looking up something and he freaked out.

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Posted by MiciB115

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by WinterBride08

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Posted by WinterBride08

OMG, stephanie....i'm so sorry...you have to be strong for him though....maybe you could try doing a search on google or web md...but you might not even want to....you will definitely be in my prayers..

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do NOT.....do NOT...google this...there is too much crap that will come up and you'll prob just freak out unneccesarily.....we never advise patients to do this. speak with ur fh and ask to go with him to the doctor.

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you're right....I take that back...anything could be causing that symptom...doing a search could be very misleading...I once thought I had cancer because of a search I did, I wasn't thinking...

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exactly. most symptoms can relate to more then one diagnosis. if you do google for something like abdominal pain, surely you will find info about cancer, HIV, pregnancy, STD's, gallstones, muscle spasms....i can go on.......but seriously, best bet is speaking to your Doctor, or a Nurse.



xoxo
<~~LIW Nurse

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It's so true, my dad did this when he was looking up something and he freaked out.

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yep. that is the biggest downside to the internet. You have access to everything and unfortunately, this can be bad when looking up medical issues. you'd be amazed at how many people show up to my ER because they read a symptom on the internet and now think they are dying or very ill. Like I said, most symptoms can be attributed to many, many illnesses. To google, or not to google? I wouldn't.

I hope everything will be okay! I will keep you and FH in my prayers!

I'm so sorry - your FH and you will be in my thoughts and prayers

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Posted by 040508Bride

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Posted by WinterBride08

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Posted by WinterBride08

OMG, stephanie....i'm so sorry...you have to be strong for him though....maybe you could try doing a search on google or web md...but you might not even want to....you will definitely be in my prayers..

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do NOT.....do NOT...google this...there is too much crap that will come up and you'll prob just freak out unneccesarily.....we never advise patients to do this. speak with ur fh and ask to go with him to the doctor.

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you're right....I take that back...anything could be causing that symptom...doing a search could be very misleading...I once thought I had cancer because of a search I did, I wasn't thinking...

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exactly. most symptoms can relate to more then one diagnosis. if you do google for something like abdominal pain, surely you will find info about cancer, HIV, pregnancy, STD's, gallstones, muscle spasms....i can go on.......but seriously, best bet is speaking to your Doctor, or a Nurse.



xoxo
<~~LIW Nurse

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It's so true, my dad did this when he was looking up something and he freaked out.

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I 100% agree.. with my anxiety i'm constantly googling things and OMGit just makes it worse!!!!! It usually turns out to be nothing and i just make myself crazy ...

You and your FH are in my prayers...lots of hugs your way

im sorry to hear that your both in my prayers!!! if you find out what it was + for feel free to FM me i work in a doctors office and have TONs of nursing books since im in school.. so if you need anything please feel free to FM me!

i hope everything turns out ok!