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Hi Girls! Just want to be clear...I am not trying to be a lunatic with the posts about the parent album. I apparently asked for opinions...on a subject that I feel way too passionately about. I do appreciate everyone's opinion...I guess I'm just not willing to consider it b/c I feel so strongly about it. I think I more needed to vent than anything else. So thanks for listening!
Hey- I understood. My in laws are getting nada. They gave my FSIL alot of money for her wedding and not a dime to us and I felt very offended (they don't belive in paying for a sons wedding). I am not getting them a parents album and they understood. They get no say in our wedding... I was raised that money talks bull$hit walks. I haven't been rude to them or commented on their lack of monitary contribution but I am not going to be throwing extra gifts their way when they left us high and dry!! I don't care what people think is right and wrong... Weddings are expensive and we work hard.
If you dont think your FILs deserve a parent album (b/c they arent helping to pay) dont get them one! Its your money and your decision- but it def. doesnt make you difficult. There are some wedding decisions there's no way you'll budge on them!
you don't need to explain anything. I completly understand
ill be making my mom & fmil albums its way too expensive getting parent albumns n with Fh and i paying for everything its too much.. plus it will give me something to do once the wedding is over
i would be doing the same if i were in your position, i think you're being fair...but i may end up giving them a parent album for a christmas gift down the road though
