Really Pissed off at my BM

OMG what is wrong with her???? I would say somethign (lol but im a b!tch!) that is so wrong..'i cant drive in snow' but than throws in your face she drove to get a WII??????????

so rude. Did she order the dress yet??? I would say something!

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Posted by angl2001

OMG what is wrong with her???? I would say somethign (lol but im a b!tch!) that is so wrong..'i cant drive in snow' but than throws in your face she drove to get a WII??????????

so rude. Did she order the dress yet??? I would say something!

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yes she finally ordered it last week. But there were problems and the manager called me 2 times cause she never called them back. but it was finally ordered on friday.

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Posted by mariaobride

Sounds like she is floating on cloud nine with her new guy. till I would be offended. if money & traveling for the dress was the real issue then I find it odd how she was able to pull a few hundred out to buy WII not to mention she tells you. Def talk with her let her know how you feel.

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yeah i couldn't believe it either when she wrote it to me. I was shocked that even if she did do that that should would tell me after all that has happened.

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Posted by Julybride08

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Posted by mariaobride

Sounds like she is floating on cloud nine with her new guy. till I would be offended. if money & traveling for the dress was the real issue then I find it odd how she was able to pull a few hundred out to buy WII not to mention she tells you. Def talk with her let her know how you feel.

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yeah i couldn't believe it either when she wrote it to me. I was shocked that even if she did do that that should would tell me after all that has happened.

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yep kind of nervy on her behalf i bet she doesnt even realize sorry you are going through this

many people prob wont agree with me but i think you should! its really not fair when BMs do these things! they are supposed to be there for us its their job. Once they accept they should be aware of their duties! I would def say something.just let her know if something needs to get done you need her to do it....if someone calls her about something that is wedding related get back to them!

hope it all works out!

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Posted by blu6385

i would say something maybe about her not getting back to your sister (though technically that might annoy her cause your sister said somethign to you) and that you feel that she is avoiding you but i wouldnt say anything to her about her buying her bf Wii if she already paid for her dress ... dont get me wrong I hate when people complain to me that they have no money and than go and buy expensive stuff but she paid for her dress already so i dont think you could say anything about that but if she hadn't apid fo her dress my asss would so say something about the money she spent on the Wii.

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Yeah I know. But even before the Wii they bought a flat screen tv and a new bed room set.

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Posted by Julybride08

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Posted by blu6385

i would say something maybe about her not getting back to your sister (though technically that might annoy her cause your sister said somethign to you) and that you feel that she is avoiding you but i wouldnt say anything to her about her buying her bf Wii if she already paid for her dress ... dont get me wrong I hate when people complain to me that they have no money and than go and buy expensive stuff but she paid for her dress already so i dont think you could say anything about that but if she hadn't apid fo her dress my asss would so say something about the money she spent on the Wii.

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Yeah I know. But even before the Wii they bought a flat screen tv and a new bed room set.

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i totally here you but if she is paying for everything she needs to for the wedding then honsetly you really cant say anything on how she spends her money .... yeah its stupid and it would annoy me but in the long run its her money ... i sometimes make comments when people tell me they are trying to save and they have no money and then they buy expensive things ... i will say didnt you just tell me you were trying to save money and you didnt have any ... but its usually at the time of the convo ..

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Posted by blu6385

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Posted by Julybride08

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Posted by blu6385

i would say something maybe about her not getting back to your sister (though technically that might annoy her cause your sister said somethign to you) and that you feel that she is avoiding you but i wouldnt say anything to her about her buying her bf Wii if she already paid for her dress ... dont get me wrong I hate when people complain to me that they have no money and than go and buy expensive stuff but she paid for her dress already so i dont think you could say anything about that but if she hadn't apid fo her dress my asss would so say something about the money she spent on the Wii.

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Yeah I know. But even before the Wii they bought a flat screen tv and a new bed room set.

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i totally here you but if she is paying for everything she needs to for the wedding then honsetly you really cant say anything on how she spends her money .... yeah its stupid and it would annoy me but in the long run its her money ... i sometimes make comments when people tell me they are trying to save and they have no money and then they buy expensive things ... i will say didnt you just tell me you were trying to save money and you didnt have any ... but its usually at the time of the convo ..

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yeah I know I can't say anything about that. But it's just lately she has totally changed, And I said something to her but it's like she don't care.