REALLY Sad..need some hugs and inspiration

Original post by btrflygrl

Dec 04, 2004 01:59 PM

We are SO out of money, I could cry. I know it's only temporary since the holidays blew our budget (yes, even limiting it to $20 a gift) and DH had to fly back to NY for some legal matters and that ticket was $350.

But it's still so depressing to think that we might not be able to pay for this or that....I don't even think we're getting a tree or gifts for each other now....

I try SO hard to save money...we don't eat out, we don't buy things for ourselves. I just don't know what else to do

allure Posted: Dec 06, 2004 12:37 AM

Re: REALLY Sad..need some hugs and inspiration

Keep The Faith it will all work out

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Dec 06, 2004 06:13 AM

Re: REALLY Sad..need some hugs and inspiration

Posted by danigirl0

we are feeling it too. we got married in february and bought a house in the summer. things are really tough right now, and like you, we spend nothing on ourselves...just food!

although we get scared and stressed sometimes, we realize that we are here for a reason and that we will work it all out. even if telling yourself that is jjust to make yourself feel better...do it!

this holiday is not going to be anything like previous years, but we are so happy that we have each other and a place to live. all the struggling does make you stronger, and as said, it will make us all appreciate things even more in the future.

good luck to you. you are not alone. [/QUOTE

i couldnt have said it better myself only i was married in jan and bought the house in summer. hang in there shana it will get better

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Dec 06, 2004 06:15 AM

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you just started a new life together in another state and your having a child it is expected to be a lil tough but it wont always be like that

brideinapril Posted: Dec 06, 2004 08:56 AM

Re: REALLY Sad..need some hugs and inspiration

Just try and remember things always have a way of working themselves out - don't let it get you down - you have so much to be happy about - you already got the greatest x-mas gift - the baby in your tummy!