REALLY? UGHHHHHH

So in the last day or two, I have a few issues:

1. Wording on my Invites;
FH parents aren't really helping, FH mother passed away. His dad remarried.
My dad is helping alot and my mother I really don't speak to. She didnt make i to my brother wedding. She got mad that he put Mr and Mrs. P. Dendrinos on the invite since they are divorced and she has a new name. But she didnt go or no help with the funding.

My dad means the world to me and I dont want to insult FILs bying putting my dad name only, and I think *Togther with their parents.. is too general'

2. Favors:
I am Jewish but my dad is greek. We will have both kind (LOL) of people at the wedding. I wanted to do a candy bar as the favor. and my dads turns around go Greek are giving u money for CANDY?!? and apparently jewish wedding don't have favors?

Really?

I am doomed

Sorry vent over !!!1

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Posted by sjr385


You could do something like:
Mr. P. Dendrinos [and Mrs. Your Mom's new name, if you want]
invite[s] you to celebrate the marriage of his/their daughter
Your Name
to
Your FH's name
son of Mr. and Mrs. His Dad & Stepmom and the late His Mom

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I like this option...I will probably do something similar since FH's dad isn't helping but still want him on the invite probably.

For favors....honor traditions if you want to honor them, but it's YOUR wedding so you should do what you want and make your own traditions. I like the candy idea (so fun!!), so if you are really set on it just do it.

I'm sorry you are having a hard time with this!

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Posted by sjr385

You could do something like:
Mr. P. Dendrinos [and Mrs. Your Mom's new name, if you want]
invite[s] you to celebrate the marriage of his/their daughter
Your Name
to
Your FH's name
son of Mr. and Mrs. His Dad & Stepmom and the late His Mom

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this is what i would do.

Michele when we did our invites, i didnt even go by who was paying for it. Jon's parents really didnt pay for anything.... just invites and the rehearsal dinner, and some of the shower. Jon wanted his paretns name on the invite so thats what we did.

also jon's father that is on the invite isnt his real father, but hes been there since he was 3 so to jon that is his dad. He didnt want his biological fathers name on the invite. he was invited tho. all that just makes it even more crazy to figure out!




and as for favors tell mister Peter that candy is fine!!!! lol

Breathe in, breathe out. Like i tell my students, smell the flower, blow out the candle!


Good luck i hope it works out.

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Posted by bluj786

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Posted by sjr385

You could do something like:
Mr. P. Dendrinos [and Mrs. Your Mom's new name, if you want]
invite[s] you to celebrate the marriage of his/their daughter
Your Name
to
Your FH's name
son of Mr. and Mrs. His Dad & Stepmom and the late His Mom

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this is what i would do.

Michele when we did our invites, i didnt even go by who was paying for it. Jon's parents really didnt pay for anything.... just invites and the rehearsal dinner, and some of the shower. Jon wanted his paretns name on the invite so thats what we did.

also jon's father that is on the invite isnt his real father, but hes been there since he was 3 so to jon that is his dad. He didnt want his biological fathers name on the invite. he was invited tho. all that just makes it even more crazy to figure out!




and as for favors tell mister Peter that candy is fine!!!! lol

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I missed you at the shower, I saw your mom, I <3 her!!!! and your grandma too LOL

Mister Peter is becoming a PITA with all his words of wisdom LOL

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Posted by Kuklitsa143

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Posted by bluj786

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Posted by sjr385

You could do something like:
Mr. P. Dendrinos [and Mrs. Your Mom's new name, if you want]
invite[s] you to celebrate the marriage of his/their daughter
Your Name
to
Your FH's name
son of Mr. and Mrs. His Dad & Stepmom and the late His Mom

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this is what i would do.

Michele when we did our invites, i didnt even go by who was paying for it. Jon's parents really didnt pay for anything.... just invites and the rehearsal dinner, and some of the shower. Jon wanted his paretns name on the invite so thats what we did.

also jon's father that is on the invite isnt his real father, but hes been there since he was 3 so to jon that is his dad. He didnt want his biological fathers name on the invite. he was invited tho. all that just makes it even more crazy to figure out!




and as for favors tell mister Peter that candy is fine!!!! lol

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I missed you at the shower, I saw your mom, I <3 her!!!! and your grandma too LOL

Mister Peter is becoming a PITA with all his words of wisdom LOL

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i wanted to go so bad, but couldnt get off from work. heard it was a great time!!!

tell mister peter we are gunna get mrs. shorty on his a$$!

I am jewish and I am going to be giving favors. Not sure what yet. I saw this bookmark I liked in that back of an invitation book that I liked it is jsut paper with tassel that was tanking guest for coming. I want to give them something else too but not sure what.


as far as wording
i may be doing someing along the lines of what you did not want to say