Reception Hall HELP ---- NYC RHs

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Posted by radiantcut

i think i only knew one girl my whole life that liked male strippers.... they gross me out, too!! i remember having a convo about this with one of my guy friends. and i was telling him, basically 99.9 % of the girls that go to the male strip clubs def DO NOT get turned on whatsoever! they're just there to be... with friends, take pics drink etc, but never to 'get aroused.' well, expect for that one friend LOL. plus arent most male strippers gay anyway? yeah... so random i know.. LOL sorry

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lmaoo some yes others are married with kids loll idk id rather see girl strippers lmao

jmho

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Posted by radiantcut

i think i only knew one girl my whole life that liked male strippers.... they gross me out, too!! i remember having a convo about this with one of my guy friends. and i was telling him, basically 99.9 % of the girls that go to the male strip clubs def DO NOT get turned on whatsoever! they're just there to be... with friends, take pics drink etc, but never to 'get aroused.' well, expect for that one friend LOL. plus arent most male strippers gay anyway? yeah... so random i know.. LOL sorry

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yeah i think most are gay actually.

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Posted by MrsS4

yeah i just meant since you were thinking about a joint bp party. Yeah its funny to me bc when i was single i would go out all the time and party all night but i wasnt going out hooking up and acting a fool when i was single so i wont now lol. I think that if a person thinks just bc you go out to a club or go away with friends means you'll do something bad, might mean thats what they did in the past so thats why they associate that with bad things.

Yeah its hard as you get older, people drift apart and change and your circle of friends changes alot but the good friends will still be there

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yeaa idk it happens im use to it by now so im okay with it-- its just sad how people change-- && yes agreed once a h0e always a h0e lmaoo

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aint that the truth. But yeah if a girl criticizes me for these type of things i just sit there and think 'oh you were freaky when you were single huh'

haha im not gonna lie im a freak-- but only with fh behind closed doors-- if u need to cheat why in the world are you getting married-- your fh is obviously not the right one!!

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Posted by MrsS4

haha im not gonna lie im a freak-- but only with fh behind closed doors-- if u need to cheat why in the world are you getting married-- your fh is obviously not the right one!!

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ditto!!

i guess SOME people make mistakes.. others just like the scheming / excitement maybe? or i dunno. i knew of someone once, years ago.... she was getting married because it was convenient. but really loved someone else... so many those types of people?

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Posted by MrsS4

haha im not gonna lie im a freak-- but only with fh behind closed doors-- if u need to cheat why in the world are you getting married-- your fh is obviously not the right one!!

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hahaha gotta be a freak with fh, keep things fresh lol. Yeah exactly, and just bc you go out doesnt mean you'll cheat or that the other person will lol

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Posted by radiantcut

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Posted by MrsS4

haha im not gonna lie im a freak-- but only with fh behind closed doors-- if u need to cheat why in the world are you getting married-- your fh is obviously not the right one!!

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ditto!!

i guess SOME people make mistakes.. others just like the scheming / excitement maybe? or i dunno. i knew of someone once, years ago.... she was getting married because it was convenient. but really loved someone else... so many those types of people?

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wow yupp ive heard of this or for the $$$ its just sad-- usually the other person is clueless too

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MrsS4

haha im not gonna lie im a freak-- but only with fh behind closed doors-- if u need to cheat why in the world are you getting married-- your fh is obviously not the right one!!

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hahaha gotta be a freak with fh, keep things fresh lol. Yeah exactly, and just bc you go out doesnt mean you'll cheat or that the other person will lol

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agreed 10000% idk i am so thankful i met fh and neither of us would do anything to jeopardize what we have....idk we dont even like to go out out without each other-- like clubbing is soo much more fun when we are together-- maybe its just us though

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Posted by MrsS4

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by MrsS4

haha im not gonna lie im a freak-- but only with fh behind closed doors-- if u need to cheat why in the world are you getting married-- your fh is obviously not the right one!!

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hahaha gotta be a freak with fh, keep things fresh lol. Yeah exactly, and just bc you go out doesnt mean you'll cheat or that the other person will lol

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agreed 10000% idk i am so thankful i met fh and neither of us would do anything to jeopardize what we have....idk we dont even like to go out out without each other-- like clubbing is soo much more fun when we are together-- maybe its just us though

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i do LOVE going out to clubs with FH. I hate that we havent in a while bc of saving money but we do our own nice weekends together so its not bad. But going out dancing with fh is my favorite.

aww yea we dont really go out clubbing anymore either we are just soo busy its hard because we would go out on a sat night & then be out till what 5am then sleep till 4 on sunday-- it kills 3 days and i havnt had 2 free days in a while--but soon-- im sure i deff need a drink loll

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Posted by MrsS4

aww yea we dont really go out clubbing anymore either we are just soo busy its hard because we would go out on a sat night & then be out till what 5am then sleep till 4 on sunday-- it kills 3 days and i havnt had 2 free days in a while--but soon-- im sure i deff need a drink loll

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yeah its not the same when you get older, you need more time to recover going out on a saturday, just kills your sunday.

oh yeah when things are crazy and hectic need to just go out and have fun once in a while