So a lot of people are telling me to register for the e-party, because if someone wants to send a gift or bring one, they will get it off the registry and then i won't end up with 8 crystal vases. I don't think I really want to do this because I don't have anywhere to put the stuff plus do you think its tacky to expect gifts at an e-party? I know you usually bring a gift but you can't tell people what to bring like a bridal shower. What do you think?
I don't think that you have to register for your e-party, if people are going to give you a gift, they are most likely going to give you money
I am not going to register before my e-party. I want people to gift me cash as a gift to put towards the wedding, so i am going to wait to register after (although my e-party won't be for another year at least!)
I don't think theres anything wrong with not registering. I don't think we're having an e-party (although I want one SO bad!!) We aren't registered just because there would be no room for anything, since we both live at home.
I dont think you should register if you dont want to. I think its what you feel you should do, DOnt feel pressured to register especially if you dont want to. If I have an e-party I wouldnt register,
we're going to register for just a few things before the e-party, but really only because people from both sides are asking us, we'll do the big part of the registry later on
Well at first I thought I could use some stuff like someone said, pots & pans but then my mom said I can't use the stuff till after the wedding because its bad luck!
My e-party is June 21st and FH and I have not registered yet and we do not plan on registering until after the e-party. I even debated writing on the invitations that gifts were not necessary. But in the end I didn't put anything. People are going to give what they want to give whether there is a registry or not. Buying presents is what a bridal shower is for.
Being that I had this issue a few months ago...We had the same problem, I didnt want to register but I also didnt want 8 crystal vases! lol (or picture frames!) AND I must say that we didnt get really any gifts...one couple gave us waterford crystal toasting flutes ( I would have NEVER registered for them- but I love them) so I dont think you will have a problem...when people would ask me if and where we were registered I just said that we didnt make one...there was no problems!
