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rehearsal dinner

renrico Posted:

rehearsal dinner

I'm a little lost. Who is invited to the rd and who pays for it? Also does anyone have a good suggestion for somewhere to have it in the western suffolk area or eastern nassau area? Somewhere nice, but not too expensive that could accomodate approx. 30 people if i am guessing correctly about who is invited haha! Thanks girls!!!

rdhbride Posted:

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Usually, the people who are invited to the RD are the immediate families of the bride and groom, along with anyone who is participating in the ceremony: the wedding party, readers, etc.
I believe it is traditional for the groom's family to pay for the rehearsal dinner, but I would guess that nowadays it differs couple to couple!
HTH!
Edited to add: A lot of times, people also include the out of town guests!
pjt212301 Posted:

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We had OOT guests, immediate family and the BP. And although it is traditional for the groom's parents to pay....mine paid. We had ours at the Library Cafe in Farmingdale

tara5533 Posted:

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My FMIL is paying for the RD that is part of her wedding present for us.. Also we are only inviitng Parents and BP and there Husbnads, Wives etc...

pinkglam19 Posted:

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We are having ours at Torcellos in East Northport. Their food is amazing and they are extremely reasonable. I would recommend picking a restaurant near your church or venue.

mara1017 Posted:

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It use to be the that parents of the groom paid for it but that was also when the parents of the bride paid for the wedding.

We paid for the wedding ourself and that also included the rehersal dinner. We had it at 56 Fighters Group in Farmingdale which is where we had our first date. We had the bridal party and our aunts and uncles and that is it.
NicksBride Posted:

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my FH mother is paying for the rehersal dinner were having it at captain bills in bayshore we have 30 people and it came out to like 1400 for everything beer wine soda and buffet style hope that helps ?:)

ChristineNorah Posted:

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My future in laws are hosting the RD. We are inviting the bridal party with guest, our readers, siblings, god parents & grandparents.

kitt6katt Posted:

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We are not having a rehearsal but we are having a welcome dinner for FH's out of town family and the BP. We are paying for it.

LBUDA Posted:

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We are having it at the bonwitt inn in commack.... where is your church located?

We are limiting the list to bridal party/readers and parents/grandparents

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