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Rehearsal Dinner Invites

OctBride Posted:

Rehearsal Dinner Invites

How far in advance should you send them out?

jeng Posted:

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I just sent mine, and it was 4 weeks in advance. In hind sight maybe 6 weeks would have been better. That's when people started to make their travel plans.

Hope this helps.
Jen
Teri Posted:

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I'm sending mine out over the weekend for our 10/3 RD.

michele31 Posted:

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I am sending out mine next week (fingers crossed) for a 11/1 RD, and 11/2 wedding.

OctBride Posted:

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I guess I should get on this, my Rehearsal Dinner is 10/3
anne Posted:

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Eeck --- yes, we need to do that as well - They will probably go out 4 weeks in advance...

vamdep Posted:

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Here's my dilemna - I have never received anything more than a verbal invite to a rehearsal dinner - so I didn't realize that I had to do invitations - how formal are yours?

jeng Posted:

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Mine were not formal at all. I just listed the times and places along with directions on pretty 8x11 stationary. I also added a little poem on top, complements of the girls on this board. Here's the poem if you're interested.

It's the night before the wedding, and all the planning is finally done.
There's time to spend with family and friends, before the bride and groom become one.

The night before we tie the knot, please come for dinner and drinks.
We’ll practice the ceremony step by step, to iron out the kinks.

I've both received a verbal invite and a written one. I decided to do a written one because everyone is coming from out of Town and thought it would be easier for them to have it written down.

If you don't have time or the energy I wouldn't worry about it.

Jen
NovemberSue Posted:

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I've never received an invitation for a rehearsal dinner. Its always been a verbal invitation. If you want to do it you can but you don't have to. We're not.

verdila Posted:

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Wow, I guess I am lucky. My future MIL is both planning the rehearsal dinner and sending out the invites. It's only about 25 people, but it will still be alot of fun!! We're having it at Katy Daly's in Massapequa.....

I think a verbal invite is fine especially if it's a small party. Personally, I think rehearsal dinners have gotten way out of hand these days and they shouldnt overshadow the wedding!! :)
Sonicstef Posted:

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Im running a little behind on my invites so I will probably send them out 3 weeks before the date if Im lucky.

My invites will be CDs with our wedding song and others on it. The little booklet inside thecase is the invite.
OctBride Posted:

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Verdila - Katy Daly's is so much fun, that will be great.
I am having my RD at the Irish Coffee Pub
verdila Posted:

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Oct bride - I've been to Irish Coffee Pub - a great place too :)

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