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Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

bubberflys Posted:

Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

Do you think this is a dumb idea?

So we are getting married on a Friday (7pm) and taking pics before hand at 4. Girls are scheduled for hair/makeup starting at 11:30. Almost our entire bridal party is from OOT and strapped for cash. We didn't have an e-party, and have no real rehearsal as we are getting married at the hall.

We wanted to do a dinner to give them the gifts and say 'thanks' and all that other fun stuff as well as 'relax' the night before, however, this means we're asking them to all take off, or leave work early on Thursday as well. Some don't work 9-5 jobs so they are all ready taking off Friday and Sat. too. Some have kids that aren't invited, and they would need to spend on another night at the hotel. We're getting married at the fox hollow and their rooms are pricey. We're looking into another hotel, but still.. it's at least an extra $100...

Would a breakfast at like 10:00? be a good idea instead?

People can then leave Friday morning to come and not pay for a hotel room Thursday night, not take an extra day off of work, and not extra day of a babysitter.

BUT where will they put their stuff? Most will probably hit some sort of rush hour on the drive here (3hr drive is the longest) they can't check in until 3:00, and then will be up and parting until 12:30am that night.. will they be too tired???

The good side to the night before is they can sleep in, really relax beforehand, no one is forced to wake up extremely early to stay up extremely late and to us dinner is something I think more people may enjoy. Breakfast is well...coffee to most of us, maybe a bagel.. I feel like I may waste their time and our $...

Any other suggestions??

Thanks
SummerBride10 Posted:

Re: Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

It might be difficult to pull off the day of your wedding. Maybe you can do something the weekend before as a thank you? Or even wait until after the wedding..maybe a breakfast the NEXT morning. It would still be appreciated, I'm sure and allow you to give them their gifts and say thank you

JAAMS Posted:

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I'd say maybe go with a Morning After Brunch. I think that will help solve the problems + I feel like adding extra things on the day of the wedding might be a major fiasco.

jlt2010 Posted:

Re: Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

i agree.. maybe a morning after brunch might be a better idea. it's going to be very hectic on the day of and i don't think you want to be worrying about an extra thing.

jme78 Posted:

Re: Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

My best friend is getting married on a Friday, and she is doing a day after brunch. I think this is a great idea - since some people are from OOT, they will be travelling day of, so still gives a chance to say thank you and spend more time together.

MrsCM Posted:

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I like the idea!

bubberflys Posted:

Re: Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

That's a great idea..

Is there a good time to give them their DOJ and other 'wedding' related gifts before hand.. This applies mostly for my BM's since I got them Jewerly and flip flops to 'dance the night away' in.
Im getting Married Posted:

Re: Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

You could always give it to them the night before or the morning of when you guys are getting ready or right before.. Not sure I helped sorry

drivwal Posted:

Re: Rehersal Breakfast? - long.. need opinion/idea

I like the morning after brunch idea too...less running around for you and for them as for the gifts...give that to them the morning of the wedding. That could be some great shots for your photographer to get as they open up their gifts!

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