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Rehersal Dinner

DestinationWed07 Posted:

Rehersal Dinner

WHo issupposetoplanthe rehersal dinner?
I know the grooms parent usually pay but who does all the planning.I have started planning and I am wondering if I may be stepping on toes by doing this.
july06bride Posted:

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DH and I (or I should say I) planned the rehearsal...although there was not much to plan-we went around checking out places...narrowed it down...chose the place...and I ,made invites-which were more like HEre's the info (not asking them whether they were coming-since they know they had to be there)
I made chocolate favors with my MOH
Chose the menu
That's really it...


On a side note, the rehearsal was on LI and Dhs parents live in CT-they dont even have a clue to restaurants, In addition, they are from Ecuador and havent experienced NY weddings-they basically gave us free reign which was nice of them!
MissingTheBGene Posted:

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My DH's parents took care of the rehearsal, so I let my MIL plan everything. One less thing for me to worry about.

Tracyann1976 Posted:

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FH and I found the place (it's about .5 of a mile from our ceremony location). His parents are paying for it. We brought down the deposit check and picked the menu. His parents are also doing the groom's cake.

kimnsteve Posted:

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Posted by DestinationWed07

WHo issupposetoplanthe rehersal dinner?
I know the grooms parent usually pay but who does all the planning.I have started planning and I am wondering if I may be stepping on toes by doing this.



i have a queation...since you are getting married in St. Thomas ...are you doing ur RD there? I'm having mine in Aruba and I hope i'm doing the right thing ...thanks !
DestinationWed07 Posted:

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Posted by kimnsteve


Posted by DestinationWed07

WHo issupposetoplanthe rehersal dinner?
I know the grooms parent usually pay but who does all the planning.I have started planning and I am wondering if I may be stepping on toes by doing this.



i have a queation...since you are getting married in St. Thomas ...are you doing ur RD there? I'm having mine in Aruba and I hope i'm doing the right thing ...thanks !



I plan on doing my RD in St. Thomas. That is why I started planning the RD but then thought maybe I shouldn't be doing this. I don'tmind doing it I just didn't want to offend my FILs

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