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smilesjc81 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:51 AM

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In pre-martial counseling I confessed to myself and the the FH

that i want a baby before a house!!

it was such a relief to finally admit that out loud

I had to stop pretending that I didnt want kids, or

didnt want them as badly as I do

my FH is TOTALLY supporting me in my confession.

we WILL have a house, but not at the expence of holding off or giving up on kids.

that is all... just sharing :)
BURDEN LIFTED!!

leesah85 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:52 AM

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yayyy so happy for you!

PazzaRagazza Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:53 AM

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thats really awesome!!!!!!!! wooo hooo for baby making :) LOL

DCgirl82 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:53 AM

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Awwwww thats wonderful!!!!

smilesjc81 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:55 AM

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thanks :)
I was hysterically crying and felt so bad for the FH

I guess I never confessed to myself or him that this was really really stressing me out.

I want a baby in the next 3 yrs
I dont wanna wait til we can afford a home, or else it may never happen

my health requires i had kids sooner then later

thefloreswedding Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:58 AM

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AWWW thats great!!! I have a 10 mth old son and he is the BEST thing in my life.....we are planning on buying a house next year and are planning thatt too!! so you are not alone!

Let me know if you need any help with anything!

P.S. I work at a mortgage company and if you are intersted, I can tell you what you would need to do NOW to start saving and getting started for house buying in the future

mrsq2be Posted: Dec 06, 2010 09:59 AM

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aww thats so great naomi!! that probably felt great to get it out there!!

Cataverri Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:01 AM

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Ohhh that's great. Start making babies!!!!!!!!!!!!

MrsTarricone2B Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:04 AM

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Awww that's great! I'm glad it's out in the open now

AudioLoveStory Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:06 AM

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That's awesome!!!

smilesjc81 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:10 AM

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Posted by mrsq2be

aww thats so great naomi!! that probably felt great to get it out there!!

im not lying... i'm actually MORE excited to get married now.

I do want a baby, and we aren't rushing...but I want one MORE then a house

and finally being honest about it ..... I am soooooo happy

a feeling a i cant quite express

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:11 AM

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glad you were able to admit that to FH and yourself... :) babies are a blessing!

annabellagirl Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:12 AM

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Awwww! Im so happy for you - it's definately NOT easy!

YAY!!

MissingLI Posted: Dec 06, 2010 10:14 AM

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Congrats to you and FH. Holding that in must have been so hard!

Richiesgirl Posted: Dec 06, 2010 12:19 PM

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bubblichik Posted: Dec 06, 2010 01:09 PM

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Good for you!

allornil Posted: Dec 06, 2010 01:12 PM

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awww im glad you said something. trust me..a baby is way better than a stupid house! I wish i had a baby and NOT a house.

smilesjc81 Posted: Dec 06, 2010 02:17 PM

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Posted by allornil

awww im glad you said something. trust me..a baby is way better than a stupid house! I wish i had a baby and NOT a house.

lol, well your house isn't not stupid LOL
however, i was stressing thinking
I want a house i want a house

the truth is I WANT a baby , and need a house.

but what the point of the house if I wait so long I can't raise a baby in it?

Ive always wanted kids, but got so caught up in
'the american dream'

my dream has always been a family, not a house