Ok... I know I asked a few months back too but now that we are 8 months away from our wedding is it me or is it crazy that FH STILL hasnt asked all his GM to be in the wedding???!!!!!!!!
ant n tilde
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um less than four months away here and FH still hasnt asked anyone
i broke down and asked MY brother even though it isnt MY job
his brother assumes he is the best man and has started to plan the bachelor party
rahana316
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Trust me dont feel bad. Up to last night FH and I were talking about this.
I'll do it. I'll do it. Just give me time.
10 months left and we have no GM.
missliss
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FH just asked his last guy a few weeks ago and we're 6 months out. They're boys, they can't do anything right.
Wedding999
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For some reason - guys just feel weird about that stuff. I couldnt wait to ask my friends and i had to practically drag fh to ask his brothers. Weird!
npwedding
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This happens to other girls?? I feel SO much better that I'm not alone on this one. The FH and I totally fought about this at the 11 month mark, can you imagine?? All of the GM have been asked, but he didn't pick his BM yet. Drives me nuts!
AS
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My FH has not asked them either. He is waiting for me to do it
korndoggie
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I asked my brothers, he asked his friends. We asked his sister and her husband together. I had to push him to ask his best man, and he changed that decision last minute. Sometimes a fire needs to be lit under their rear ends.
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We still don't have a best man. I thought it was just my FH. Good to hear they all seem to think this isn't a big deal! Men!
kristi313
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don't feel bad, mine hasn't either it's starting to bother me
davenjess
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Okay - that surprises me!!!!!
Not one week after we got engaged we had everyone picked out. We added one more boy & girl a month later....but that's surprising..
The guys have to help plan the bachelor party - unless your FH doesn't want one I guess...
anneandchris
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My FH asked all of this guys already he pretty much knew who they would be before we got engaged -- I however still have not asked all of the girls. I am still debating on 3 of them on what I should do or not.
Now my friends husband waited til 1 month before their wedding to ask his guys.
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my FH is not normal then cuz he asked his GM right away
TrueLoveIn2008
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We only have one - a best man - and it's FH's brother, but he hasn't asked yet. I think he knows - I mean, we've told his parents in passing - but his bro lives in FLA and we really don't speak to him that often, but he's gotta know. That's why FH won't ask - he thinks he doesn't have to
PEPE10
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it took awhile for my fh to ask too-- and he probably only did it cause i kept nagging him