responses so far... what do u think of this?

queenbean Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:35 PM

responses so far... what do u think of this?

So I invited 200 (that includes everyone w/ guest, and some people are coming alone) So far we have 88 people coming and the RSVP date is this Sunday. Does that seem ok? I want to make my 120 minimum but I also wanted to at least have 140ish

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:36 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Are you missing alot or did alot of ppl say no?

snwb08 Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:37 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

I am in the EXACT same boat, except we invited 157 and we only have about 88 responses also... I never thought we'd come close to not making our minimum. In our case though I only want to make the minimum b/c i wanted the wedding as small as possible, so I think you're fine.

aren't you annoyed? like, what are people waiting for?!

queenbean Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:38 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by snwb08

I am in the EXACT same boat, except we invited 157 and we only have about 88 responses also... I never thought we'd come close to not making our minimum. In our case though I only want to make the minimum b/c i wanted the wedding as small as possible, so I think you're fine.

aren't you annoyed? like, what are people waiting for?!

seriously--- when u get the invitation, either you are coming or you're not. Why do they have to wait to be called?!?! I hope I am not stuck making a ton of phone calls next week!!

queenbean Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:39 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Are you missing alot or did alot of ppl say no?

hmm, I probably should have mentioned that. I think like 35 so far

bluegreen08 Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:39 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Are you missing alot or did alot of ppl say no?

yeah, i have the same Q. are people rsvping as singles? are they rsvping no? have you not heard from them?

snwb08 Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:39 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by queenbean

Posted by snwb08

I am in the EXACT same boat, except we invited 157 and we only have about 88 responses also... I never thought we'd come close to not making our minimum. In our case though I only want to make the minimum b/c i wanted the wedding as small as possible, so I think you're fine.

aren't you annoyed? like, what are people waiting for?!

seriously--- when u get the invitation, either you are coming or you're not. Why do they have to wait to be called?!?! I hope I am not stuck making a ton of phone calls next week!!

most of mine are on fh's side. he is seriously like so what if they don't respond? I'm like you are kidding right? and i have FINALS next week so I can't even deal with this at all. It's totally freaking me out. i think it's so rude that people don't send them in. I don't want to call anyone!

snwb08 Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:40 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by queenbean

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Are you missing alot or did alot of ppl say no?

hmm, I probably should have mentioned that. I think like 35 so far

i got a lot more no's than expected. fine with me!

DeeluvsVinny Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:42 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Serioulsy, why do ppl wait so long to respond?

For our eparty..I made FFIL call almost everyone on his side bc they hadn't responded. You're coming or you're not...it's that easy.

queenbean Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:42 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by bluegreen08

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Are you missing alot or did alot of ppl say no?

yeah, i have the same Q. are people rsvping as singles? are they rsvping no? have you not heard from them?

more people are RSVPing no than I thought would I want to write them back a letter that says, 'don't you love me?!?!' haha

queenbean Posted: Apr 28, 2008 05:44 PM

Re: responses so far... what do u think of this?

Posted by DeeluvsVinny

Serioulsy, why do ppl wait so long to respond?

For our eparty..I made FFIL call almost everyone on his side bc they hadn't responded. You're coming or you're not...it's that easy.

I have to admit before my wedding plans kicked into full gear, I was a procrastinator. Now that I know what its like to be on the waiting end for the response cards, I am always going to respond ASAP!

Lots of people who I haven't heard from are my friends too!