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twoifbysea Posted:

return address question

FH and I live together. Should the return address on the invites be to my parents' house or our address? Their names are going on top of the invite along with FH's parents.

Espo22 Posted:

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I personally say do whatever you want to do. Honesly can say that most ppl dont even really pay attention to that and say 'oh its going back to so and so which means they pay'

You can put your own address or your parents if you wish.

I would never see an invite and look at whose name is on top of the invite and then think but why isnt it going back to them. Honestly i look at the info i need, sign rsvp card and just send.
krislee316 Posted:

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I put our address (FH and I)and put my name as the return to person.

Espo22 Posted:

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Posted by krislee316

I put our address (FH and I)and put my name as the return to person.


yeah i forgot to post but before the wedding dh and i didnt live together. I decided to mail them all to his house, bc it was easier. I have a mailbox in a building and half the time they get crushed if there are too many things in there and i always forgot to carry the key lol. But i put both our names and did his address only.
twoifbysea Posted:

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Posted by Espo22

Posted by krislee316

I put our address (FH and I)and put my name as the return to person.


yeah i forgot to post but before the wedding dh and i didnt live together. I decided to mail them all to his house, bc it was easier. I have a mailbox in a building and half the time they get crushed if there are too many things in there and i always forgot to carry the key lol. But i put both our names and did his address only.


Thanks girls! Our landlord gets a BOATload of mail and ours gets mixed in all the time so I think I might just have the return address as my parents' to avoid any RSVP's getting lost.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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my mom insisted that the rsvps be mailed to her and not fh & i bc technically my parents are paying for the wedding... it ***** bc i really wanted to stalk the mailman
mlcvln129 Posted:

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We live together, and we're going to receive the RSVPs. I can't imagine anybody else getting them--I am so anal about the mail, to the point where I ask FH to put it in specific places for me when I get home!!!!!!!

krislee316 Posted:

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Posted by twoifbysea

Posted by Espo22

Posted by krislee316

I put our address (FH and I)and put my name as the return to person.


yeah i forgot to post but before the wedding dh and i didnt live together. I decided to mail them all to his house, bc it was easier. I have a mailbox in a building and half the time they get crushed if there are too many things in there and i always forgot to carry the key lol. But i put both our names and did his address only.


Thanks girls! Our landlord gets a BOATload of mail and ours gets mixed in all the time so I think I might just have the return address as my parents' to avoid any RSVP's getting lost.








In that case def send it to your parents house!
divadane Posted:

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hi girls,
i live with FH, too.
the RSVPs are addressed to me.
should i put BOTH of our names on the return address of the invite envelope, or just mine?
ddnsp618 Posted:

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Posted by divadane

hi girls,
i live with FH, too.
the RSVPs are addressed to me.
should i put BOTH of our names on the return address of the invite envelope, or just mine?


ours says both of our names
Im a Pepper Posted:

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My parents were the ones 'inviting' the guests but the return address was mine and FH's (since we live in PA and my folks live in NY).

Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by divadane

hi girls,
i live with FH, too.
the RSVPs are addressed to me.
should i put BOTH of our names on the return address of the invite envelope, or just mine?


We put both names.
elysemichelle Posted:

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we put my mom on the return as i knew she would want to be the one to get it- the good thing is, now i can go see her every day hahaha

TaraVinny Posted:

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i think it is up to you. it might be easier to keep track of it if the return address comes to your house.

Shellymd Posted:

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My parents were the return address and on the response card. I just stop by their house every few days to open! They have been nice enough to hold them and not open them until i get there

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