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Reviews of the RH's I saw ...updated as of 1/31/09

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

Reviews of the RH's I saw ...updated as of 1/31/09

I know all of you are ready to read these reviews, sorry they are so long. I just want everyone to know that these are my opinions, as discussed with my MOH (who has tagged along). Once I get my final list of RH's, FH will go and visit with me so we can make our final decision. For those who have booked in the places below, please do not take any offense.

Some of you already know that I am having a small wedding (75 ppl); therefore, I have stayed away from the RH's that require larger minimums, so my list will be short and sweet.

To start things off I will list off the RH's in the order they have been seen and give my comments:

1. Mediterranean Manor - went to bridal expo back in 2008. Good food, CH room nice, reception room a bit closed in and crowded. Offers good package deal. I suggest for those who live out in Suffolk, if you are looking for a decent priced reception hall, and you don't have a large guest list, you may want to look there. I live in Nassau, so it is a bit far for me.

2. Fox Hollow - made appt to visit on a Sunday back in 2008 and BM was not there. I was told it was his day off. Got to see a little bit of how things ran. I know a lot of you have raved about their rooms, but I was actually glad to see how the place ran when it was busy with events. To be quite honest, it didn't impress me. There were guests from one wedding hanging out in the valet area, while a bride from another wedding was getting ready to make her grand entrance and she was waiting in the hallway. For a Sunday it was a bit too crazy for me. Not to mention that I was stood up.

3. Swan Club - my appt was last weekend. I had been here before so i knew how it looked. I was truly impressed with the menu. They offer a lot of food and choices. And not just regular stuff you see on menus. I like the fact they offer 4 entree selections, beef, chicken, fish and either duck or pasta dish. I like also they have a variety of fish offerings besides salmon. My brother recently went there for a X-mas party and he said the food was great. They offer a wedding cake in their price. They have their own pastry chef on the premises. They have a platinum Menu which includes sculptures, raw seafood bar, viennesse table, etc. You can also add pieces of the Platinum menu if you don't want the everything that is included. The prices were soooo reasonable. I got quotes from January to April for Friday, Saturday and Sundays. If Valentine's Day were not on the Sunday before President's Day, I would have booked it. Their Sunday prices are awesome!!!
To top things off, their BM Jordana was great to talk to, real sweet and really down to earth. Their gardens are beautiful, great place to take pictures in any type of weather. The rooms were big and had great view of the gardens below and the water. They offer color linens and they allow you to use candles as centerpieces. As of last weekend it was my favorite. I would be using this RH as the comparison point versus all other RH's.

4. Stewart Manor Country Club - last night I had my appt. It holds one wedding at a time. They provided a menu, but assured me that the menu is not limited to what is listed. You can ask for special requests and they even encourage if you have a family recipe that you want to be served, they will make it. Although the menu is not limited, it does not provide as much as what was listed in Swan Club's menu. One con for me was that the fish selection was Salmon only. Wedding cake is also included, but they use an outside bakery to make it. However, the building does provide a unique venue. It has an old world charm to it. There is no razzle dazzle here, but if you are looking for a unique place I would suggest it. Since you are the only ones using the facility at one time, you can make the place as homey as you would like. The BM gave me examples of placing family pictures around the mantels, tables etc. The reception room has wood floors, and wood beams above that have covered strings of light. The RH is in the middle of a regular neighborhood, so it has a huge grass lawn, but behind the building is just the parking lot and behind that is the Hempstead train line. So really not a lot of places to take pictures. As for pricing, they are close to what Swan Club quoted. In some time periods, SC is cheaper and in others SMCC is cheaper. I must mention that their BM James was very nice. He is the MD for all the events. He mentioned that the waitstaff are all assigned a table and they get not only the dinner order, but also the drink orders for your guests. He said they make it very personable. I am including this one in my final list.

5. Sans Souci - had an appt today. Got there and the first thing I noticed was the view of the water. I totally thought of photo ops. Met with Anastasio. He asked me if I had ever been there and I said no. he was surprised, because most people who go there have been there before. It is known by word of mouth and to me that says a lot. Compared to the BM's at SC and SMCC (who I talked with for a long time), Anastasios was nice, but not as personable. He took phone calls during our meeting, which allowed me to walk around and really get a good look at the place. It has french windows all along the front of the hall, which overlooks the water. Awesome view!! Sans Souci has three menus, which includes a lot of stuff. You can have options like 6 passed hors d'oeuvres and two chef stations or have 10 hors d'oeuvres and no chef stations. Great selection of food and entrees. Wedding cake is included in the price. They have their own pastry chef. Also included in their price is centerpieces!!! They have an assortment of flowers. All you need is to select the colors. I thought this was great considering I don't want to spend a fortune on flowers. I saw some of their centerpiece samples while I was there and I have to say they looked good considering they are part of the package. They also had candelabras, for those who aren't into floral centerpieces. One great thing was the minimum. I only have to guarantee a minimum of 60, which I almost . This definitely gives me some leeway. With a lower minimum I could get the higher priced menu. So that definitely was a plus. Prices were similar to SC. The only thing is that the price seems to be for both day or evening, which is sweet. SC does have a price difference between day and evening. This definitely at the top with SC.

6. Milleridge Inn - Carriage House - had appt today. MOH and I headed to the Milleridge Inn. I was told to meet the BM at the Cottage House. I had seen pics of the Cottage House and thought I was seeing that hall. The Cottage House is beautiful from the pics I have seen. After discussing the menus and pricing with the BM, she told us we would go see the room. But first she would need her coat. I thought maybe the entrance to the hall was outside or something. Next thing I notice we follow her as she begins to cross the huge parking lot moving away from the Cottage House. For those of you who don't know, the Milleridge Inn is a stand alone building, behind it a parking lot , and the Cottage House is beyond the parking lot on a small hill alone. The Carriage House is on the opposite side of the huge parking lot from the Cottage House as a stand alone building. The room looked okay. However, I was informed that the CH would be held in the same room as dinner. During CH the table would have no plates. Only when dinner was served, the plates would be placed on the tables. I was also told that the Cottage kitchen cooks the meal and then the meal is delivered, I guess across the parking lot , to the Carriage House kitchen. That totally turned me off. The bridal suite and bathrooms were in the basement. Another sore point. There was one handicap restroom on the main floor, but it was in the main reception room. At the time I didn't think of it, but it just crossed my mind that what happens in the middle of dinner someone uses that bathroom and stinks it up...UGH!! That would be bad. As for pricing they were giving discounts on their silver and bronze menu for weddings during the months of Jan through April. I don't think the discounts can woo me to even book this place. I just wish they would have showed me the Cottage House, or at least tell me about it and what is required to book there. But they didn't.

I had also wanted to see Coral House. I had gotten a quote, but they require a minimum of 100. Now that I have found places that will do 60 - 75 minimum, I am not sure I want to waste time going there if I can't make the 100 minimum.

I think the last place I am going to visit is Westbury Manor. I may make an appt for this upcoming weekend. I will keep you posted on how that visit turns out.

Hope I didn't bore anyone. And for those still looking and are planning a small wedding, I hope this information can be helpful.

***I have two more reviews see my latest post...
sugarnspice Posted:

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Glad you seem to have found two (swan club and San souci) that you really like. I think Westbury Manor is really nice, great feel to it.... very different

mosh424 Posted:

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Posted by NYYankeeGirl7
6. Milleridge Inn - Carriage House - had appt today. MOH and I headed to the Milleridge Inn. I was told to meet the BM at the Cottage House. I had seen pics of the Cottage House and thought I was seeing that hall. The Cottage House is beautiful from the pics I have seen. After discussing the menus and pricing with the BM, she told us we would go see the room. But first she would need her coat. I thought maybe the entrance to the hall was outside or something. Next thing I notice we follow her as she begins to cross the huge parking lot moving away from the Cottage House. For those of you who don't know, the Milleridge Inn is a stand alone building, behind it a parking lot , and the Cottage House is beyond the parking lot on a small hill alone. The Carriage House is on the opposite side of the huge parking lot from the Cottage House as a stand alone building. The room looked okay. However, I was informed that the CH would be held in the same room as dinner. During CH the table would have no plates. Only when dinner was served, the plates would be placed on the tables. I was also told that the Cottage kitchen cooks the meal and then the meal is delivered, I guess across the parking lot , to the Carriage House kitchen. That totally turned me off. The bridal suite and bathrooms were in the basement. Another sore point. There was one handicap restroom on the main floor, but it was in the main reception room. At the time I didn't think of it, but it just crossed my mind that what happens in the middle of dinner someone uses that bathroom and stinks it up...UGH!! That would be bad. As for pricing they were giving discounts on their silver and bronze menu for weddings during the months of Jan through April. I don't think the discounts can woo me to even book this place. I just wish they would have showed me the Cottage House, or at least tell me about it and what is required to book there. But they didn't.




So sorry to hear about the Cottage


What is your min.? It might be too small for the Cottage that is why they didn't show you. I know my min. is about 175 for a Saturday night in June. Plus I agree about the Carriage House, It really isn't good for a typical wedding. I had my e-party there and it was amazing!!! The food and service was outstanding. FM me question about the Cottage.
Kerri Lynn Posted:

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I think the Swan Club is a great choice , I also met w/ Jordana and signed the contract the same day!! I cannot wait to see it in the summer!!

What room are you intereseted in?
AdriandSteve Posted:

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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72


4. Stewart Manor Country Club - last night I had my appt. It holds one wedding at a time. They provided a menu, but assured me that the menu is not limited to what is listed. You can ask for special requests and they even encourage if you have a family recipe that you want to be served, they will make it. Although the menu is not limited, it does not provide as much as what was listed in Swan Club's menu. One con for me was that the fish selection was Salmon only. Wedding cake is also included, but they use an outside bakery to make it. However, the building does provide a unique venue. It has an old world charm to it. There is no razzle dazzle here, but if you are looking for a unique place I would suggest it. Since you are the only ones using the facility at one time, you can make the place as homey as you would like. The BM gave me examples of placing family pictures around the mantels, tables etc. The reception room has wood floors, and wood beams above that have covered strings of light. The RH is in the middle of a regular neighborhood, so it has a huge grass lawn, but behind the building is just the parking lot and behind that is the Hempstead train line. So really not a lot of places to take pictures. As for pricing, they are close to what Swan Club quoted. In some time periods, SC is cheaper and in others SMCC is cheaper. I must mention that their BM James was very nice. He is the MD for all the events. He mentioned that the waitstaff are all assigned a table and they get not only the dinner order, but also the drink orders for your guests. He said they make it very personable. I am including this one in my final list.




thats awesome that they allow yout to bring a family recipie!
MC127 Posted:

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Make sure to meet with Mel at Westbury Manor. Just play hard ball and he will lower the price. Make sure you eat the fruit he gives you while he sells you everything. That pineapple was so sweet and the melons were great. I can't wait to have some during my CH.

I completely agree with you about Stewart Manor and about Fox Hollow. For FH-When I was there for my appt. on a Saturday, I saw two different brides in a matter of minutes.
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Posted by Kerri Lynn

I think the Swan Club is a great choice , I also met w/ Jordana and signed the contract the same day!! I cannot wait to see it in the summer!!

What room are you intereseted in?



Actually, she said i would be getting the Contessa room, which normally has a minimum of 100, but was willing to give it to me for 75. I have been int hat room before and it is beautiful. What makes it great is the views overlooking the gardens. Even with all the snow we have had and having no flowers out it was still breathtaking. SC is definitely tied for first right now with Sans Souci.
JC297 Posted:

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we have the contessa room with a min of 75 but we are having an afternoon wedding.

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Posted by mosh424


Posted by NYYankeeGirl7
6. Milleridge Inn - Carriage House - had appt today. MOH and I headed to the Milleridge Inn. I was told to meet the BM at the Cottage House. I had seen pics of the Cottage House and thought I was seeing that hall. The Cottage House is beautiful from the pics I have seen. After discussing the menus and pricing with the BM, she told us we would go see the room. But first she would need her coat. I thought maybe the entrance to the hall was outside or something. Next thing I notice we follow her as she begins to cross the huge parking lot moving away from the Cottage House. For those of you who don't know, the Milleridge Inn is a stand alone building, behind it a parking lot , and the Cottage House is beyond the parking lot on a small hill alone. The Carriage House is on the opposite side of the huge parking lot from the Cottage House as a stand alone building. The room looked okay. However, I was informed that the CH would be held in the same room as dinner. During CH the table would have no plates. Only when dinner was served, the plates would be placed on the tables. I was also told that the Cottage kitchen cooks the meal and then the meal is delivered, I guess across the parking lot , to the Carriage House kitchen. That totally turned me off. The bridal suite and bathrooms were in the basement. Another sore point. There was one handicap restroom on the main floor, but it was in the main reception room. At the time I didn't think of it, but it just crossed my mind that what happens in the middle of dinner someone uses that bathroom and stinks it up...UGH!! That would be bad. As for pricing they were giving discounts on their silver and bronze menu for weddings during the months of Jan through April. I don't think the discounts can woo me to even book this place. I just wish they would have showed me the Cottage House, or at least tell me about it and what is required to book there. But they didn't.




So sorry to hear about the Cottage


What is your min.? It might be too small for the Cottage that is why they didn't show you. I know my min. is about 175 for a Saturday night in June. Plus I agree about the Carriage House, It really isn't good for a typical wedding. I had my e-party there and it was amazing!!! The food and service was outstanding. FM me question about the Cottage.



Yeah my minimum is way too small for the Cottage then, but it would have been nice to be told about their many facilities. The Carriage House if it was truly less expensive than let's say a Swan club or Sans Souci, I may have considered it. But with all the cons I found with it, the pricing even with the discount they tried to throw in, wouldn't have swayed me their way.
monkeybuttz Posted:

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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72

2. Fox Hollow - made appt to visit on a Sunday back in 2008 and BM was not there. I was told it was his day off. Got to see a little bit of how things ran. I know a lot of you have raved about their rooms, but I was actually glad to see how the place ran when it was busy with events. To be quite honest, it didn't impress me. There were guests from one wedding hanging out in the valet area, while a bride from another wedding was getting ready to make her grand entrance and she was waiting in the hallway. For a Sunday it was a bit too crazy for me. Not to mention that I was stood up.

09er butting in............
I am getting married at Fox Hollow and I totally understand that everyone has their own opinion but I just wanted to ask..........You give lots more information about all of the other halls you visited. Why did your FH 'review' only include this? Was this as far as you got?
Im not trying to be ugly, Im just curious.
NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Posted by monkeybuttz

09er butting in............
I am getting married at Fox Hollow and I totally understand that everyone has their own opinion but I just wanted to ask..........You give lots more information about all of the other halls you visited. Why did your FH 'review' only include this? Was this as far as you got?
Im not trying to be ugly, Im just curious.



Hey not a problem in asking...
Even though the BM stood me up, I would have gone back to FH. However, based on what I saw at FH on what would be a typical day of events made me think twice.

With guests just hanging out in the driveway, I thought FH could have managed that better considering other events were going on. Also, while in the hallway waiting for BM, no one from FH was around to greet me or ask my reason for my visit. Made me think about strangers just being able to walk in and not be greeted by an employee.

And considering this was a Sunday and not a Saturday which would be probably busier, I wondered how much crazier things could get. I hope this helps you better understand where I was coming from.
monkeybuttz Posted:

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Posted by NYYankeeGirl72


Posted by monkeybuttz

09er butting in............
I am getting married at Fox Hollow and I totally understand that everyone has their own opinion but I just wanted to ask..........You give lots more information about all of the other halls you visited. Why did your FH 'review' only include this? Was this as far as you got?
Im not trying to be ugly, Im just curious.



Hey not a problem in asking...
Even though the BM stood me up, I would have gone back to FH. However, based on what I saw at FH on what would be a typical day of events made me think twice.

With guests just hanging out in the driveway, I thought FH could have managed that better considering other events were going on. Also, while in the hallway waiting for BM, no one from FH was around to greet me or ask my reason for my visit. Made me think about strangers just being able to walk in and not be greeted by an employee.

And considering this was a Sunday and not a Saturday which would be probably busier, I wondered how much crazier things could get. I hope this helps you better understand where I was coming from.



Thanx so much for responding w/o thinking that I was being ugly. I truly appreciate that! Things can sometimes turn.....not so festive on here.
I totally agree with being 'put off' by someone not asking if they could help you-Id be iffy as well. That does not make for a good impression at all.

As for FH being busy, they sure are so I guess I just have to keep my fingers crossed and hope for the best when my day comes !!



Thanx again!!! I appreciate it.
Alexandra17 Posted:

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that was one of the best detailed reviews ever

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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Posted by Alexandra17

that was one of the best detailed reviews ever



Thanks!!

I tried to be as honest as I could be based on my personal experience.

Also, I know there are some girls who are having small weddings, so I thought this would be great way for them to at least get an idea of what to expect.
cluelessnyc Posted:

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Great reviews. It is important to write about the places because the more you see, the more confusing it gets. Remember that what is right for someone else may or may not be right for you. There are many places because we all have different needs and likes.

I visited many of the same places you did. What I did not like about Sans Souci is that the dance floor is the cocktail room. I had my prom at Swan Club and went to a wedding there so that was out (also more then one event at a time). My brother had his wedding at Coral House and it was great (centerpieces were included). I agree about Millridge Inn. Westbury Manor is beautiful but the times did not work for us (they give pastries and offer drinks when you go to visit!).

I agree, I like the idea of being the only event at the place. I am having my wedding at Stewart Manor. I loved how homey feeling it is. James is fantastic. Anything you want special in the way of food or liquor they will make sure they have and make for you. Another thing I liked is that we are the only event all day on Sunday so we can start whenever we want (we are starting at 5pm) where most places said before 12 or after 6:30pm. I loved the idea of being able to personalize the place with pictures and putting a basket in the bathroom of things. The bridal suite is just a room, nothing to look at but I plan on being at my cocktail hour so that did not matter to me. Since we have older people attending our wedding, we wanted a place with the bathroom, cocktail room, and dining room on 1 floor which Stewart Manor had.

Good luck planning!!!
jussie82 Posted:

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If anyone has not decided on a reception hall and wants to be the only affair, check out Harbor Links Golf Course. I booked there for a sunday night (labor day weekend). I think the room holds over 200 but I only had to guarantee 95. They have a really good menu-filet mingon and chilean sea bass on the standard menu and let you do a tasting b4 you book. The ceremony is outside in a little gazebo and the cocktail hour in a tent. They also threw in 2 roundtrip airline tickets in the use for FH and me.

AngeeM Posted:

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Great Reviews! I love the SC. I love it so much, I booked with them. I did like the way Sans Souci looked online but I never went to see it. Good luck and keep us posted!

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

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I definitely will.

I called Coral House and they gave me awesome quotes for April/May Saturdays only. I spoke with Linda and she told me that she will send me all their info in the mail. That once I get it and if I want to make an appt, that she will arrange a tasting for us. Hoping to get the info in today's mail, so I can arrange a meeting this Sunday....

I will also be visiting this weekend the Sands at Lido Beach and hoping to get an appt to see Westbury Manor. Waiting for call back from WM BM.

Although the Sands has a minimum of 100, BM Ian did not discourage me from visiting the place. Instead he said I would need to check out the room to calculate if it is too big for my number of 75-85 guests.

I will keep you all posted
cluelessnyc Posted:

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Coral House is real nice. My brother had his wedding there 5 years ago in July. Everyone was real nice, the drinks and food was good. Everyone enjoyed it. We had a great time. Plenty of seats at the cocktail hour. The bridal suite was nice and big. The bridal attendant was very nice and helpful with bustling my sister-in-laws dress (I was the maid-of-honor and had no clue what I was doing with bustling). They include the centerpieces.

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted:

Re: Reviews of the RH's I saw ...updated as of 1/31/09

Hi there ladies!!!

I have two more reviews to post....
Westbury Manor and Sands at Lido Beach...

Give me a few minutes to post them....

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