RH dinner question??...

I'm inviting everyone with a significant other.

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Posted by mrsg2be11

Yes..only if they're married (or seriously dating) I don't need them bringing some random person to my RD & wedding!!

Also, I'm seriously considering doing a Rehearsal Luncheon....to save some serious money lol

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I'm hoping to set up a brunch! Call me a cheapo I don't care lol

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Posted by mrsg2be11

Yes..only if they're married (or seriously dating) I don't need them bringing some random person to my RD & wedding!!

Also, I'm seriously considering doing a Rehearsal Luncheon....to save some serious money lol

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exactly how i feel and exactly what im doing

Yes, definitely significant others.

Our RD is a whole week before our wedding (my church only does rehearsals on Thursdays and Fridays and I didn't want it the night before my wedding - too much stress!) so I don't have to worry about OOT guests (unless they want to come to town super early!)

Thanks everyone looks like I obviously will, just don't know that we can have it where we wanted

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Posted by mrsg2be11

Yes..only if they're married (or seriously dating) I don't need them bringing some random person to my RD & wedding!!

Also, I'm seriously considering doing a Rehearsal Luncheon....to save some serious money lol

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rehersal luncheon here too!
maxwells in islip has a good 20/pp deal

Hmmm...
I dont even know if i am having one....

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Posted by LaBellaVita622

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Posted by ElovesJ117

I will be. I think its a little rude not too. For example, one of the groomsmen are married and his wife is not one of my bridesmaids but I would feel bad if her husband was at the RH dinner and she wasn't invited. Lol I don't know why but I feel like I would be hurt if the invitation wasn't extended to me if my FH was in the bridal party and I wasn't yet we hang out with the couple often.

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this is exactly what happened to me! I wasn't invited when FH was in a BP and I was like WTH! but now that I'm looking into it and trying to price it out I can see why I really wanted to have it at our favorite restaurant right near our church but if we invite significant others it will be like another $1000 ...I just feel that maybe we should bring food in and have it back at my parents house then because it's too much $..we're paying for alot if it ourselves and barely making that and our wedding is on a Thursday..FIL's haven't helped with a dime while my parents shocked us and are paying for the hall which is amazing...I just can't hold my breath for his parents to pay for the RD and for that $ I'd rather put it towards the wedding I think

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FMIL flat out said shes not paying for it. my house isnt big enough to entertain, and having a dinner would be so much $$, so we are doing a lunch the saturday prior to our wedding