Ridiculous

coldasice217 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:14 PM

Ridiculous

So a few months ago I had posted about how my sister is planning on bringing her male friend (who does not like me) as her guest to the wedding, because her other friend who she brought to our other sister's wedding will be out of the country at the time of mine. I wasn't happy with this choice, but I was like whatever, I don't care as long as she completely covers theirselves. Rude, I know, but whatever, she was pissing me off.

So he was at the house a few weeks ago, and apparently he has said something to me, which I didn't hear, so I didn't answer him, and walked out of the room. So now his panties are all in a bunch, and my sister is flipping that he is going to not want to come with her because I insulted him so gravely, and that she will be guestless.

Um, please. Do me a favor and don't come.

So my mother wants me to make a big deal and apologize to him and kiss his butt, and my father is the total opposite and is like eff that, she doesn't need to apologize for anything here. He's a little leery of him as well, so he understands where I'm coming from, even though in this particular case I wasn't being INTENTIONALLY rude.

So how ridiculous is that? I mean, I want my sister to have a guest so she's not bored, but she's acting like this is the only person she can bring, and why do I have to bend over backwards to keep him placated? I didn't hear him, sheesh, he reacted like I ran over his dog.

Dr Meg Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:17 PM

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Honestly this kid sounds like he is a freakin drama queen. I personally wouldn't apologize for something you didn't do intentionally and I further wouldn't do it, just so he doesn't come to your wedding. Two birds, one stone.

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:17 PM

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That is absurdly ridiculous! Your sister is going to be busy on your wedding day, she doesn't even need a date! I would stand my ground, if I were you.

NikkiR515 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:19 PM

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Seriously... who is this guy??? He may be your sister's friend but he is nothing to you and I totally agree with you and your dad.. Eff him!!! He needs to get over himself and be grateful you are even letting him come to the wedding because honestly I don't even know if I would have done that much for him! Don't even stress it.. Maybe it is his time of the month or something...

bag19 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:21 PM

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this guy sounds like a DOOF! I wouldn't apologize and I certainly wouldn't want him at my wedding!! Isn't there anyone else out of the 8 million plus people in NYC she could bring??

mimid15 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:21 PM

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Do you even think he will still be around for your wedding? Is she dating him or is he just a friend?

AdriandSteve Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:21 PM

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it's not ur problem to deal with. It's ur sisters

KRISTIND Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:22 PM

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wow

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:23 PM

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I would tell my sister to tell him to grow up and to stay the F home

coldasice217 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 01:25 PM

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Posted by mimid15

Do you even think he will still be around for your wedding? Is she dating him or is he just a friend?

He's just a friend, so the liklihood of him still being friends with her is greater than if he was a bf. There's just something about him that I just can't put my finger on that I don't entirely trust. My sister definitely liked him at one point, and he kind of shot her down, and he's fickle and I think she's going to get hurt because she's very naive. So if he pulls crep and 'refuses' to go because I didn't hear whatever inane comment he made, he's not hurting me, I could give two less, but he'd be intentionally hurting my sister, and that PISSES me off.

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Apr 29, 2009 02:34 PM

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He needs to get over himself. Why does she NEED a date? Im pretty sure she will be busy enough that day helping out with you and partying with family

JennyAPH Posted: Apr 29, 2009 02:41 PM

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I would totally invite my sis with out a guest.... lol b*tchy I KNOW.

Your sis needs to deal with this, not you. Tell these people to F OFF..

debzy Posted: Apr 29, 2009 02:42 PM

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I agree with most of the previous posters - your sister doesn't need a date unless she's in a serious relationship.

It's still quite a few months before your wedding...with plenty more opportunities for you to 'offend his highness.' I'd stand you ground and pray that he's still pissed enough at you not to attend your wedding.

It's YOUR wedding. If you don't want him there, you have every right to tell your sister that. If he was her bf, it would be a different story.

LadyC23 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 02:48 PM

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That is ridiculous and he should get over himself!

geegee827 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 02:52 PM

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My vote - Eff him!

I would so not apologize.

gina409 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 03:11 PM

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im sorry...no disrespect to ur sis,mom or anyone but i would tell this guy to kiss my *** def not apologize and not give 2 sh!ts if he came to the wedding..

i mean people r expecting alot from u for a guy who has not been so nice to u in the past..i mean its ur wedding

Juhgail Posted: Apr 29, 2009 03:14 PM

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Stand your ground. He hs his panties in a bunch so too bad.

Like you said, he wont come? boo hoo.

MrsJuneB2B Posted: Apr 29, 2009 03:34 PM

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ugh, i can only say don't you dare apologize. i'm siding with your dad on this one. i know this kind of drama, and honestly, there's something a little off about someone that gets SO upset over something so obviously innocent. i mean, i know you don't want drama, who does? but i wouldn't apologize. it's not like you did anything. i don't know him, but i don't like him!

littlepixie12 Posted: Apr 29, 2009 04:01 PM

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ok honestly.. your wedding is in Dec.. and if he is going to hold a grudge for 6 months.. then I wouldnt want him at my wedding, especially when you didnt even do anything! If it was that important to him, why didnt he or your sis call you back into the room? Just kind sounds like HS drama bs, IMHO.. how old is he?