did you just feel all the time like you had butterflies in your stomach / were going to be sick / were going to cry / ohmygoshi'mgettingmarriedwtf!!!!!!!! ?
Two weeks... two weeks... please tell me I'm not the only one who spent/is spending the last couple of weeks feeling like my stomach is dancing... This HAS to be normal, right?
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Its around 9 months away and I already feel like Im going to throw up
mfiorent
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I'm already have 'dreams' & i'm also nine months away lol... i think what are you feeling is COMPLETELY normal!
drpepper318
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Yes totally normal!!! Try to relax & enjoy this time!!!!!!
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I'm right there with you.. And I feel like its the first day of school all the time! and then I'm so excited, then I'm so worried I wont get everything done in time.. I also can't sleep more then 4 hours.. My mind can't settle at night... But I think we are normal
amytee
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Totally. My date is a wk after yours and i got all teary just reading your post. I'm a mess too!!!!
maybride75
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yeah pretty much i feel like im gonna vomit any second
jaiese
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Yes. I was feeling that way last week. Now, 9 days away, I feel like it's all very surreal, and not actually going to happen. Kind of crazy.
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Posted by weddingbunny
did you just feel all the time like you had butterflies in your stomach / were going to be sick / were going to cry / ohmygoshi'mgettingmarriedwtf!!!!!!!! ?
Two weeks... two weeks... please tell me I'm not the only one who spent/is spending the last couple of weeks feeling like my stomach is dancing... This HAS to be normal, right?
omg! I totally feel this way everytime I look at a calendar a remember how close I am.
I'm at 8 days
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i think we ALL feel or have felt like this at some point! no worries girl - ur day is gonna be here & it's gonna be the best day of ur life!!!!
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honestly i freaked out two weeks before i was so overwhelmed and stressed with what still had to get done i was having panick attacks then i started to realize if it does not get done it doesnt get done and no matter what is not done no one will miss and it will still be the BEST day of our lives!!! with that said the last week i was nervous the beginning of the week when i was still @ work everyone coming in giving me the countdown etc... then the couple of days before when i picked up my dress and things like that were done i was good to go... the day before i treated myself to a massage and a pedicure with my MOH... and i was so relaxed...I was so relaxed and had this calm that came through my body...everyone who came into my hotel room was shocked (because honestly i am a wacko lunatic that can't sit down) I was sitting down on my wedding morning drinking a cup of coffee eating fruits and enjoying the ladies that came to my room... took a bath ~ took my time getting my hair and makeup done,..it was an awesome day! So my advice to you is to have everything done two days before and leave yourself to do not much the day before and the morning of...
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Posted by jaiese
Yes. I was feeling that way last week. Now, 9 days away, I feel like it's all very surreal, and not actually going to happen. Kind of crazy.
that surreal feeling will turn into a calm sort of feeling...that is how i felt very surreal and it does not even feel like it is happening..
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Totally. My date is a wk after yours and i got all teary just reading your post. I'm a mess too!!!!
you will be fine ~ BREATHE BREATHE!!!
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Posted by amytee
Totally. My date is a wk after yours and i got all teary just reading your post. I'm a mess too!!!!
you will be fine ~ BREATHE BREATHE!!!
I know no one wants to hear this but to releive my panick attacks and the stress that i was feeling i was working out 1/2 hour a day...and it makes a world of differerence
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I didn't have a chance to feel that way. I planned everything in 6 weeks and did all the decorating and cooked all the food for 80 pp. The invite said 2pm I was still setting up tables at 1:45. So I was to busy to get nervous, until the LAST minute!! LOL DH and I walked out together and when I was finally ready I started freaking out (it was the first time with all the planning I actually had time to think about getting married) I was so nervous my heart was pounding I couldn't breathe! Thank God Dh was with me, I wouldn't have made it. He was completely calm, and he just took my hand and told me it's OK. We walked out together and it was beautiful.
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I was doing ok but now three weeks before the big day, I'm starting to get nervous. I know I'll be fine the day of but my mind is on constantly with all the last minute details. But if something doesn't get done, I'm not going to sweat it.
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oh god was i nervous!! while i was getting my nails done the day before i was freaking out quietly in the chair then i had to go to the rehersal and i was crying and couldnt breathe. i kept saying 'i dont wanna do this' haha. right before i walked down the aisle i needed water. i thought i was going to pass out or puke!
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You know, I never really freaked out or got super nervous, but the two weeks before my wedding is when it started to kick in.... Like, 'OMG, I'm getting MARRIED soon!' Especially the night before....I woke up at 4am and couldn't fall back to sleep with the anticipation!
But, the morning of my wedding, surprisingly enough I was super calm and excited! The hair and makeup girls said I was the calmest, most easy going bride they'd ever seen.... DH and I saw each other before the ceremony for pics, which helped a LOT (totally relaxes you). And as I was about to walk down the isle, my dad looked at me and said 'Are you ready for this?' I just smiled and said - yep! Let's go!
Can't help the butterflies.....but, you'll be fine! When I woke up the morning of, I realized all this hard work was finally paying off, and I was going enjoy every second of that day, without worrying about anything, cause it was finally here!
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I think everyone feels this way. I have about 10 months to go and Im thinking about the night before my wedding and if I will be able to sleep and If im going to throw up. I think everyone goes through this. You put so much into the day and you want it to be perfect. Just keep breathing!!!!
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Yup....I certainly did...I barely kept any food in my stomach...I had a slight nervous breakdown right before the rehearsal dinner...but day of, I was SOOO calm...only slight butterflies. Everyone was amazed at how relaxed I was (I'm usually a basket case- very high anxiety)
