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8N11 Posted:

ring bearer

Do you think a 2 and half year old ring bearer is too young? We have absolutely no otherr little boys for the wedding except him!

RitasEngaged Posted:

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no i don't think he is just make sure he won't be shy enough to walk down the aisle or he won't throw a tantrum

if you feel it is too young you don't have to have a ring bearer
sugarnspice Posted:

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It depends on you...

Mine will be JUST over two and this is how I feel


When i asled his mom i told her that if he decides he doenst want to walk or he throws the pillow, then its fine. Its life. I really am low key and accept that nothing will be perfect. Im not even having him wear a tux, (what 2 yr old wants that!)

Of course things may go well, but they may not. If you are okay with the risk then do it! I am
mbscheer Posted:

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It is a little different but one of my students (he has autism) is my ring bearer. We said the same thing...if he makes it great if not just knowing he is there means the world to me. I am paying to have a babysitter there for him so she is going to have a toy waiting for him at the end but you could have a family member do that. If having him in the wedding means a lot to you let NO ONE talk you out of it. If not then you do not need to have a ring bearer.

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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It really depends on you.....my ring bearers are twins and by the time of the wedding they will be 2 1/2....but i don't have a problem if they cry or don't make it down the aisle, i know girls who are the reverse who make a scene if they don't make it down the aisle....so its up to you and what you are looking for.

Jna2010 Posted:

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i think its fine.... just know that theyre little and they may not be perfect cuz theyre so young but people usually love when they stick dont do it perfect cuz they end up doing something so adorable instead and makes ur day even more memorable!

amarra121 Posted:

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I think 2 years old is fine. You should make sure though that he will be willing to go down the aisle worst case scenario you could always have some one wait for him at the end of the aisle. like a mom or someone he is close to. that usually gets them to walk down the aisle.
Sandradv121 Posted:

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How cute is that! You may have to have his mommy there guiding him, but it will be ok. Our ring bearer is an utter momma's boy, but she's in the bridal party so she'll walk him down if it gets ugly (tears, screaming, covering his face... but he's still cute!). I say go for it!

AngeeM Posted:

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I think little ring bearers are cute. But i think that they might need some coaching to get down the aisle. But that's with most children though. My ring bearer is a momma's boy too, but his mom is my MOH and she might have to walk with him down the aisle. I think it might be cute.

lori7570 Posted:

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I'm having two, a 2 1/2 year old and a 3 1/2 year old.....I'm going to have someone at the front of the aisle and back coaching....

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i think you should be fine

CloudNine Posted:

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ours will be 3 (twins). i would just practice with them a little. i was thinkin of getting my FG a basket and the RB's a pillow and practicing with them a bit

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