Ring Bearer and Flower girl HELP!!!

Ok, I have 3 young boys and one girl in my wedding party.

The 3 boys ages will by 6, 3 1/2 and 3

The girl will be 2.

How do I have them walk down together? How do I Pair them. And what will the three boys do!!!

HELP!! NOT SURE

You could have the oldest boy be the 'official ring bearer' and walk in by himself

and then you could have the FG in the middle of the younger boys all holding hands and they walk in together

I am having a lot of kids too -- First rule of thumb -- don't expect much from them.

You can try and line them up but when the day comes don't expect perfection. If you do -- don't have kids.

Sorry I read their ages wrong: I would have the 3 and 3 1/2 walk with the girl and let the older boy walk alone with the pillow.

The main job of kids is to look cute!

Are any of them brothers or brothers and sisters? They may feel more comfortable walking with their own sibling

The 6 year old and the 3/12 year old are brothers and the 2 year old girl and the 3 year old boy are cousins.

I think Im going to do what you said have the two little boys walk next to the FG and have the older boy carry the pillow.

Thanks for your input!!!

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Posted by anneandchris

Sorry I read their ages wrong: I would have the 3 and 3 1/2 walk with the girl and let the older boy walk alone with the pillow.

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I agree!! This seems to make the most sense. It really doesnt matter though.... as long as they look cute they call all run in at the same time.

VERY TRUE!!!!!

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Posted by wifetobe

The 6 year old and the 3/12 year old are brothers and the 2 year old girl and the 3 year old boy are cousins.

I think Im going to do what you said have the two little boys walk next to the FG and have the older boy carry the pillow.

Thanks for your input!!!

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I agree...i have 8 kids in my bridal party. the two identical twin girls are my junior bridesmaid (9 yrs old); my oldest nephew (5) and fh's half sister (6 will walk down), my goddaughter/cousins daughter (6) will walk down with my godson/nephew(3), and my niece (4) will walk down with her brother/my nephew (2)

Your welcome. Glad to help.

We have a lot of little ones and though I have a plan for them I am also ok with the fact they might not even make it down the aisle!

HOLY COW!! 8 Kids!!!!
God bless you!!!

and I agree wtih everyone who says they are just supposed to look cute so it doesn't matter if they just run down !!!!!

there's a few things you can do...

you can have 6 y.o. be the officially ring bearer b/c he can probably get down the aisle the best.

then have the other 2 escort the FG b.c at that age, the 3 of them are better off together

just a tip, if you havent thought of it yet... have someone in the front and back of the aisle the little kids are very comfy with so they coax them to start and then they have someone to focus on and go to in the front. we did these for all my cousins weddings and it worked like a charm.