so he's moving in today, and all we're doing is fighting. i'm almost to the point of regretting this whole thing. When I moved in, he decided to take a break to go out with his friends.... yet i have to be here the whole time he's moving in...
everything i did so far, he hates.
i give up.
MikesBride2B
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Moving is stressful...could it just be that?
dazies1011
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Its just a stressful time. Is it your place or both?
Jennmolloy
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It was like that for FH and I when we moved in together. It defintiely took some getting used to. Give it some time and it will all work out.
9509Bride
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so sorry! ITA with the above, moving is very stressful. if you have to take a break for a while then do that dont let it get to you.... once you are done and are back to normal things be will fine.
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Its just a stressful time. Is it your place or both?
new place for both of us, but he isnt paying anything, so its technically my place.
LadyDuda81509
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def takes some getting use to! FH and I have been living together for 3 months and still not completely use to living together! begining was hard!! but its slowly getting back to normal!! you guys will get the hang of it soon!!
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When DH and I moved in together it was a NIGHTMARE... We fought constantly when we were moving in. Moving in with someone (especially when you are both going to a new place) is even more stressful than wedding planning! Give it a few days and I am sure it will get better!
Summertimegal424
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when we moved in together we were at eachothers throats. then 3 years later we moved again and we were at it again.
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Posted by mdawg
Posted by dazies1011
Its just a stressful time. Is it your place or both?
new place for both of us, but he isnt paying anything, so its technically my place.
moving in together is a big step and you will go through tons of growing pains. DH & I moved in together almost 3 years ago and have moved apts since then. Each move caused some fights.....its normal.
I think its good it is a new place for both cause then its not your or his but just because he isnt paying dont make him feel like it is your place or that can cause some stress.
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Posted by mdawg
Posted by dazies1011
Its just a stressful time. Is it your place or both?
new place for both of us, but he isnt paying anything, so its technically my place.
I say do what you want with alittle of is taste but once you guys are settled in the fight will clam down.
meara
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also you are right before your wedding no? this time is like manic-depressive world . ; up down , yes no, so I would just ride it through, keep communicating, try responding with nice things even when you don't want to. .
unless there really are other things that are making you pause. .
