RP from LIF very long..I am just so hurt.

I posted there in my FIT before, but i need some hugs from my LIW girls.

So Ive been out of the house a month. My brother has been out for years. My room and my bros room are in the basement and my sisters room is upstairs next to my parents room.

Anyway, I still have a ton of stuff in my room that needs to be gone through and stuff that I need to find places for. I told them that Id get to it asap but I needed to get the school year started and I have been swamped with grad work and school work.

PS..My little bratty 16 year old sister starts complaining that she wants my room and that I need to get my sh it out. I told her the world does not revolve around her and that I need time to do it blahblah. My parents agreed. NOT to mention...my brothers room has been totally empty for years and we use it for storage.

ANyway I was just talking to my dad on the phone and he tells me he and my sister picked out paint for HER new room and that he PACKED up my stuff and put it out in the basement (we have a large room outside our rooms) for me to go through when I get a chance.

I AM SOOOOOO MAD!!!! First of all, he could have frekkin asked! and second of all, she always gets exactly what she wants cause she yells and complains about it until my parents just give in. If she wanted to go downstairs so bad she could have taken my brothers room!

ARGH...I am so upset and I feel that packing up the rest of that room is something I kinda 'needed' to do, ya know? I guess it sounds dumb, but I spent 20 years of my life there!!

Thanks for listening guys...Im gonna go over there to check out the damage.

Update one:
Ok I just got home from a hysterical crying fight with my sister and father.

My sister is just the most selfish person on the planet...

25 years of my life just gone...they even PAINTED the room.

And they didnt 'box' everything up more like threw everything in bags ... My antique jewelry box from my gram that is like my most prized possession was on the floor with my jewelry like thrown on the top of it...DIAMOND jewelry.

My mom apparently had no clue they did this and is LIVID...she is out with my aunt and has been all day.

My dad just called to apologize....and I get it..he is a man and wouldnt understand why this would be so important for me, but Im just so hurt. I havent cried like this is such a long time. The thought of my sister and father going through all my stuff makes me want to puke.

Update two
The thing that kills me my brother sh it is still exactly how he left it. His cologne bottles still on the shelf, pajamas in the drawers, movies on his tv stand...

and he has seriously not lived home in 4 or 5 years!!!

I was going over there tues, wed and thurs this week cause DH will be away and my plan was to go through more stuff which they KNEW.

My mom is playing all innocent and trying to play me against my dad even more which is lovely.

Its like my entire life just thrown in piles on the floor...so hard to see. My sister is just the most selfish person I have ever met...she KNEW I would be upset and had the nerve to call my mom screaming at her on 'why she told me' ummm like I never was going home?

*****UPDATE
So my dad called and apologized last night and he came over today and apologized to me and DH separetely. He feels REALLY bad and I feel bad for making him feel that way BUT he knows it was wrong and he should have just called me. As for my bratty selfish sister.....she still refuses to even speak to me.