RSVP

Original post by MrsRallis07

May 08, 2007 09:46 PM

My RSVP due date is this coming Friday & I have yet to recieve all my replys. I'm still waiting on 40 more replys. There are days I get more then two cards and then there are days when I get none
I'm a little sad. Just curious is this happening to any other brides.

Aug07OFCbride Posted: May 09, 2007 12:39 PM

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i always see this type of post, so I guess it happens to most. What a shame! Sorry!

Aug07OFCbride Posted: May 09, 2007 12:40 PM

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Posted by SusiBtoM

Posted by MrsRallis07

Is it rude to call guest & ask them if their coming or not?

Not at all !
It's rude to not RSVP.

I'm not at that point yet, but I'm sure it will happen to me just as it happens to everyone else.

Exactly! Theyre being rude to be honest!

HelenZ Posted: May 09, 2007 12:41 PM

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its definitely not rude to call them!! they should be embarassed that you even HAVE to call!!

My rsvp date is August 4th, which is almost 6 weeks before our wedding date, but I picked that date on purpose b/c our family reunion is the following Saturday (the 11th) so at least if I have to track people down it should be easier for me!! I can stalk them at the reunion lol!! But seriously people should really learn to RSVP on time!!

causeimb Posted: May 09, 2007 01:10 PM

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Dont worry. On our RSVP date we got over 100 people. People forget.

The same thing happened to my cousin when she was getting married in December; and she sent a text message out and reminded everyone like a week before.

lilangel Posted: May 09, 2007 01:14 PM

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Make a list of all who you are missing and get calling! Make it a family effort where you are hounding down those relatives!

heatherandrichie Posted: May 09, 2007 01:14 PM

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it's totally happening to me right now I didn't get any for days, then I got some over the weekend and (1) yesterday. My RSVP for OOT guests is the 15th and for NY'ers its 6/7. I have already made up my guest list to divi out to mom, FMIL, FH & I and my dad so they can call all of their invited guests to see whats up

kateretak2 Posted: May 09, 2007 04:46 PM

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I had to track down like 20 RSVPs when the due date came. Annoying

mycrayon1 Posted: May 09, 2007 04:48 PM

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Same here!!! My mom is still getting them and our RSVP date was April 23rd!!! Hence why we made it so early

NY031978 Posted: May 09, 2007 05:07 PM

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it sure did happen....i had 100 missing on the RSVP date!!!

pixiechickie Posted: May 09, 2007 05:08 PM

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Posted by SusiBtoM

Posted by MrsRallis07

Is it rude to call guest & ask them if their coming or not?

Not at all !
It's rude to not RSVP.

I'm not at that point yet, but I'm sure it will happen to me just as it happens to everyone else.

Agreed!

stoebe07 Posted: May 09, 2007 05:19 PM

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I am also not getting any replies back in the last two days. People are very rude.
Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day!

courtand25 Posted: May 09, 2007 07:20 PM

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Get this...our BM and MOH have yet to reply!
So, yes, we are waiting on a lot of rsvps!
I guess people are just busy...but don't they know how anxiously we await their responses?

RobbsWifey Posted: May 09, 2007 07:59 PM

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Absolutely feel the same way! Monday I got none, yesterday I got 3 and today I only got 1....it's killing me and I am already paranoid about not meeting my minimum. You're not alone.