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Buttafli1277
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:08 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:08 PM
RSVP
I'm planning on ordering my invitations next weekend. I was wondering what my RSVP date should be if my wedding is May18th? How far before the wedding should I expect to get all of my RSVP's?
lilmrs
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:11 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:11 PM
Re: RSVP
I am 05/17 and making my rsvp on 04/23 we have to have the final count in by 05/03.
Buttafli1277
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:19 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:19 PM
Re: RSVP
Debbie, when do you plan on mailing out your invitations?
Latina511
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:20 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:20 PM
Re: RSVP
Normally is 1 month before the wedding. My wedding was 9/15 so the RSVP date was set for 8/15.
Cindy
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:27 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 07:27 PM
Re: RSVP
I had mine a little over a month before.
balilove
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 08:54 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 08:54 PM
Re: RSVP
Usually the date is about 1 month before the wedding. If you think people are slow to reply then give yourself an extra week or two.If you are having an 'A' list and a 'B' list of invits then I'd definitely give them 2 months.
dkga1026
Posted: Dec 20, 2002 10:38 PM+

Posted: Dec 20, 2002 10:38 PM
Re: RSVP
i had a one-month rsvp also....my wedding was 10/26 and the rsvp date was 9/27...
Buttafli1277
Posted: Dec 21, 2002 12:38 AM+

Posted: Dec 21, 2002 12:38 AM
Re: RSVP
If I mail my invitations out around March 15th is that way too early if I make my RSVP date April 19th? Should I mail them out the beginning of April instead and have a later RSVP date??
lilmrs
Posted: Dec 21, 2002 12:41 AM+

Posted: Dec 21, 2002 12:41 AM
Re: RSVP
that is pretty much EXACTLY what I am doing! Except I will send them out at the beg. of march
michele31
Posted: Dec 21, 2002 09:32 AM+

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Posted: Dec 21, 2002 09:32 AM
Re: RSVP
Make sure you build in 2 weeks for late sendings. Trust me, people are rude and you will get RSVPs long after the date.
Buttafli1277
Posted: Dec 21, 2002 11:14 AM+

Posted: Dec 21, 2002 11:14 AM
Re: RSVP
Thanx for your help ladies
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