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RSVP amazement - vent, beware

CappyGirl Posted:

RSVP amazement - vent, beware

You would be amazed at the amount of grown adults who 'misplace' the invitation or RSVP card and have called or emailed to rsvp. Really? Really? This is not a 14th birthday party.

Yesterday was our RSVP date and not a single RSVP card arrived in the mail . . . we had about 20 responses outstanding.

A bunch of people 'thought they sent it in but will check', others 'forgot' or 'misplaced' the response card . . .

I am so weary to mark people down as a yes without their card!!!!
AwaitingAugust Posted:

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Posted by CappyGirl
I am so weary to mark people down as a yes without their card!!!!



if they said they'll be there, i think it's fine to mark them as a 'yes' without the RSVP card. just make sure they have the right date and time written on their calendars

super annoying about the missing RSVPs though
MrsC2010 Posted:

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jennybee Posted:

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I know! Mine just passed and we have 14 left.

I agree...if they say yes, confirm the date/time/place and check it off!!!

Don't stress
CappyGirl Posted:

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these people are driving me bonkers and of course they are practically all FH's side.

AngnShaun Posted:

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my invites went out a little late... but i only have a week left and still have 2/3 of my rsvps missing

AgaBride062610 Posted:

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my rsvp date was 4 days ago and i am still missing 20 rsvps...

halfbaked Posted:

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Unfortunately you're going to have to. I had extra RSVP cards so I just filled out one and told them to forget mailing the original back.

MrsSx2 Posted:

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omg, thats crap! Its true though, you think the adults would just check their schedules, mark the RSVP and put it in the friggin mail! How hard is that! I am so not lookig forward to the stragglers!

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i know i went through the same thing. i called over to a family friend and they're like 'oh of course we're coming!' dude..wth its a stamped envelope, send it in!!
cateydee Posted:

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Posted by CappyGirl

You would be amazed at the amount of grown adults who 'misplace' the invitation or RSVP card and have called or emailed to rsvp. Really? Really? This is not a 14th birthday party.

Yesterday was our RSVP date and not a single RSVP card arrived in the mail . . . we had about 20 responses outstanding.

A bunch of people 'thought they sent it in but will check', others 'forgot' or 'misplaced' the response card . . .

I am so weary to mark people down as a yes without their card!!!!



my date was yesterday and i had 0 responses as well!!!!! people told me 'oh is it due already?!' w t f
Lsorrent Posted:

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My wedding is next weekend and I still never got RSVP's from two people. One person (an old college roommate) said she put it in the mail and is coming, but I never got it. The other is my dad's cousin, and she told another cousin that she wasn't coming

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