here i am thinking that people arent even going to come and they want to come AND bring people with them who were not invited
so far we have 17 yes and 0 nos
i really wanted to be under and right now it looks like our wedding may become the family reunion!!
lillprincess54
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dont let it bother you, most of the NO's come towards the end of your rsvp deadline
Future Mulligan
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dont let it bother you, most of the NO's come towards the end of your rsvp deadline
im trying not to get too worried - b/c we had a feeling we would be REALLY under - so maybe we will actually hit our minimum - i just fear going over!!! we so much rather not owe anything else b/c the RH has been paid off....and i dont want another expense....oye!
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it's true alot of the no's come towards the end....I don't know why family thinks that a wedding is a dang cookout....they want to bring everyone and I have to remind people its not $20 a head...
good luck...this was not the most fun of the process....wait till you have to do seating...
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Posted by lillprincess54
dont let it bother you, most of the NO's come towards the end of your rsvp deadline
im trying not to get too worried - b/c we had a feeling we would be REALLY under - so maybe we will actually hit our minimum - i just fear going over!!! we so much rather not owe anything else b/c the RH has been paid off....and i dont want another expense....oye!
i didnt have any no's for weeks..they all came in the last week
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yeah dont even worry right now. ALl along i was afraid of going over bc i also didnt want to pay more than we already had to pay. The first few weeks i was getting scared bc at one point i had like 100 yes and 10 no and then it was continuing with all the yes's. Then at the end i ended being under minimum by a little so its funny how it works out
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so far i havent had anybody try to ADD people. I think they know that there's no way I'd let them get away with that. I have no problem calling people up and telling them that the only ones coming are the ones on the invite.
And yeah, i haven't gotten back any No's yet either which makes me a little nervous. But I'm pretty sure I know a few who can't come. Like people said above, I think the No's won't be until later.
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you will def get no's closer to if not after your rsvp deadline...don't worry!
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Aww dont get too stressed it will even out towards the end. But ummm.... yeah..... those people that cross out the number and fill in their own..... ***????? If it says Mr & Mrs So and So its 2 people not 4
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I was so afraid of being over........and we are just meeting our min of 150 & invited 229. I really believe the economy & market have alot to do with it. People are just scared to spend money.
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ugh i just cant believe that people have the balls to ask around if they can bring other people with them....my parents got two phone calls already from people wanting to know if they could bring other people with them that were NOT invited.....
and what is slightly annoying is my parents gave me their list, and i questioned my mom a few times on it - b/c i kept saying that i had a feeling the way she picked who to invite wasnt fair - its either you have to invite everyone or no one and she just wanted to invite certain people....now its becoming a problem - and i knew this would happen.....and now when people call she is blaming me - when im the one who told her if she wanted us to invite everyone we would figure it out - but she said no, the way she had the list was fine - and now she is acting like she had nothing to do with the list when people are calling
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ugh i just cant believe that people have the balls to ask around if they can bring other people with them....my parents got two phone calls already from people wanting to know if they could bring other people with them that were NOT invited.....
and what is slightly annoying is my parents gave me their list, and i questioned my mom a few times on it - b/c i kept saying that i had a feeling the way she picked who to invite wasnt fair - its either you have to invite everyone or no one and she just wanted to invite certain people....now its becoming a problem - and i knew this would happen.....and now when people call she is blaming me - when im the one who told her if she wanted us to invite everyone we would figure it out - but she said no, the way she had the list was fine - and now she is acting like she had nothing to do with the list when people are calling
just breathe, most of us had family members do this dont worry. I dont know why but it seems to be normal. I had given my dad the guest list since january and gave it to him 3x to go over it and make sure i didnt miss anybody and each time he said it was fine. Then AFTER i sent out invites he asked me to write down the names of those on our side so he can make sure to keep it in order and if ppl dont rsvp to contact them and all that. WHen i handed him the list, he starts asking how come i didnt invite this one and that one and blamed it all on me luckily i made a bunch of extra invites
