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RSVP Expectations?

CortneyAndKevin Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

This might be a hard poll to ask but, if I guranteed 175 people how many 'no's' on average do you expect or have you ladies received. I am thinking if I have to fill 175 seats I need to invite like at least 205

hedwards0524 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

Right now I am at 10% both with RVSP's sent to my home as well as people I know will not be able to make it. I think it really depends on how many OOT people you invite but most people say 20% or so. Again it depends on your situation so going by a standard number may not always apply

cets1290 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

We are inviting 265 people, 50 of whom are my dad's cousins and will most likely all be no's. So, I am expecting (hoping) that we get around 50-60 no's so that we can be just under or just over 200 people

meejack1110 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

To estimate I counted every person I know can't come (we have some much older guests who live on the west coast we are only inviting out of respect). We added that number to half of the people we are questionable about (we have 15 OOT people we are iffy about we 'guessed' 7 will decline) Then on top of that we took a 1/4 of the distant relations and friends who live nearby but aren't super close...thinking likely 1 out of 4 will decline. Sounds confusing... lol I can't think how to better explain it but overall it ends up being about 17% of our guest list...which is normal (between 10-20 is normal) but I wanted a more precise number so that's why I broke it down. Either way I'm sure I will get some surprises lol

sandr325 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

I pretty much knew which family members and close friends would come and which wouldn't. (based on location)

I think you need to give a fairly high estimate of 'no's' for work people and some friends.

Also remember, that if you don't meet your number, you can always substitute vendors or kids.
LJP Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

I would definitely invite more than 205 if your minimum is 175. Most venues told me that between 15% and 20% of guests won't show. I invited 240 and we are expecting 175 since we have a lot of people coming from other states.

CortneyAndKevin Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

thanks ladies! i am trying to just get a good idea ahead of time before my preliminary list with STD cards

Meine13 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

We're inviting 250 and hoping for only 200 to show...would be soo much easier on the pockets,lol

lauren1802 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

inviting 213 to 228
hoping for 175
budgeting for 200

20% no's?
Bride2013 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

We invited 181 guest and 146 RSVP and then the day of we had 6 no show after they RSVP so also keep that in mind

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RSVP Expectations?

summer2014 Posted:

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Posted by LJP

I would definitely invite more than 205 if your minimum is 175. Most venues told me that between 15% and 20% of guests won't show. I invited 240 and we are expecting 175 since we have a lot of people coming from other states.




This!! I've heard about 20% don't come. Exactly my #s - we have to guarantee 175 at my venue and my invite list is about 240
Nik17 Posted:

RSVP Expectations?

Im nervous about this. I have this theory that bc I am a winter bride (end of january), with nothing going on for this time of year- I will have very few no's! (And I also think I will have no show's based on people being sick last minute during flu season!)

Any other winter brides feel this way?

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