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franksgirl323 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 08:46 AM+
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RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

My RSVP date is August 5th...I am planning on mailing the invites around July 4th (day before/after). Is that enough time to allow for response? Should I be mailing these out a week earlier? HELP.
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ewickens Posted: Jun 16, 2006 08:50 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

Mine is August 16 and I am sending mine out next week. I want OOT guests to have ample time to schedule travel plans, etc.
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franksgirl323 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 08:51 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

Good point. I thought about that...which is why I sent STDs. Did you send out STDs?
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ewickens Posted: Jun 16, 2006 08:53 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question


Posted by franksgirl323

Good point. I thought about that...which is why I sent STDs. Did you send out STDs?



I did with my Xmas cards, but our hotel booking also expires on August 16, so I wanted to cover all bases. I have 80% guests coming in from OOT, so I want to give everyone ample time to plan - b/c we know people wait until the last feasible moment!!!!
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franksgirl323 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 08:59 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question


Posted by ewickens


Posted by franksgirl323

Good point. I thought about that...which is why I sent STDs. Did you send out STDs?



I did with my Xmas cards, but our hotel booking also expires on August 16, so I wanted to cover all bases. I have 80% guests coming in from OOT, so I want to give everyone ample time to plan - b/c we know people wait until the last feasible moment!!!!



Wow...80%!!!! Okay. You have a special situation. Thank you for sharing. I wonder if I am mailing them on-time if I don't have a lot ot OOT. (Only about 12 people - or 3 families).

Anyone think I should mail mine earlier or am I timing it correctly????
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ewickens Posted: Jun 16, 2006 09:02 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question


Posted by franksgirl323


Posted by ewickens


Posted by franksgirl323

Good point. I thought about that...which is why I sent STDs. Did you send out STDs?



I did with my Xmas cards, but our hotel booking also expires on August 16, so I wanted to cover all bases. I have 80% guests coming in from OOT, so I want to give everyone ample time to plan - b/c we know people wait until the last feasible moment!!!!



Wow...80%!!!! Okay. You have a special situation. Thank you for sharing. I wonder if I am mailing them on-time if I don't have a lot ot OOT. (Only about 12 people - or 3 families).

Anyone think I should mail mine earlier or am I timing it correctly????



I know I have special circumstances, but most of the girls I spoke to gave themselves 4-6 weeks from the RSVP date to mail them out, so I think you'd be safe having them ready for the start of July.
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franksgirl323 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:04 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

bump for more responses.

thanks ewickens
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MissingTheBGene Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:05 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

I would maybe send it out a week earlier, that way it has time to arrive, and with the holiday weekend, it just gives a little more for people to get their responses in.
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Tommylove Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:06 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

That is plenty of time.
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reenielady Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:21 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

I would send out a week earlier if you have them ready because of the holiday - it is better to be early
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FrogGirl0917 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:23 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

I agree with giving them a little extra time....mine are going out tonight for aug 31 rsvp
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ewickens Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:28 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question


Posted by franksgirl323

bump for more responses.

thanks ewickens



HTH Tammy. By the way, my name is Betsy!
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franksgirl323 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:29 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question


Posted by ewickens


Posted by franksgirl323

bump for more responses.

thanks ewickens



HTH Tammy. By the way, my name is Betsy!

Thank you..now I can say 'Thanks Betsy'.
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imyurfavgirl Posted: Jun 16, 2006 11:29 AM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

Wow should i send my invites earlier...i plan on sending them out the second week of July and my response date is August 23
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Boston&NY2006 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 12:04 PM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

I sent mine out a month in advance and it was plenty of time. We still had outstanding responses when our response date arrived, but those people wouldn't have been on time no matter when the response date was.

I think a month is pretty much standard.
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ewickens Posted: Jun 16, 2006 07:34 PM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question


Posted by franksgirl323


Posted by ewickens


Posted by franksgirl323

bump for more responses.

thanks ewickens



HTH Tammy. By the way, my name is Betsy!

Thank you..now I can say 'Thanks Betsy'.



Can you believe today is our 3 month mark? At this time in 3 months, my wedding will be over and I'll be married!!! YAY!!!
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bingbabe04 Posted: Jun 16, 2006 08:57 PM+
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Re: RSVP/Mailing Invite Question

That should be enough time, but you might want to give it an extra week because of the holiday weekend.
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