RSVP question???

FutureMrsRP Posted: Mar 17, 2011 04:29 PM

RSVP question???

So i have a question...has anyone sent out their RSVPs and gotten back some 'No's'? I've heard that generally when people RSVP 'No' they include a check/send a gift. My question is...should I wait until the wedding is over to send back a 'Thank You', or should I do so as soon as the gift is received? What are you ladies doing? (Our invites go out in a month and a half, but I like to plan ahead!)

pjc92980 Posted: Mar 17, 2011 04:55 PM

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I am probably going to wait until after the wedding bc i am sending photo thank you cards and since they couldnt be at the wedding, sending the a picture of us i think would be nice

but then again, i may just want to get it over with and send it right away...who knows
i guess when it happens ill play it by ear lol

FutureMrsRP Posted: Mar 17, 2011 08:46 PM

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Thanks for your input!

VCanizalez Posted: Mar 17, 2011 09:15 PM

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Posted by pjc92980

I am probably going to wait until after the wedding bc i am sending photo thank you cards and since they couldnt be at the wedding, sending the a picture of us i think would be nice

but then again, i may just want to get it over with and send it right away...who knows
i guess when it happens ill play it by ear lol

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IrishAli Posted: Mar 17, 2011 09:38 PM

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Posted by pjc92980

I am probably going to wait until after the wedding bc i am sending photo thank you cards and since they couldnt be at the wedding, sending the a picture of us i think would be nice

but then again, i may just want to get it over with and send it right away...who knows
i guess when it happens ill play it by ear lol

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dfed1022 Posted: Mar 17, 2011 11:10 PM

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Posted by IrishAli

Posted by pjc92980

I am probably going to wait until after the wedding bc i am sending photo thank you cards and since they couldnt be at the wedding, sending the a picture of us i think would be nice

but then again, i may just want to get it over with and send it right away...who knows
i guess when it happens ill play it by ear lol

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jovigirl414 Posted: Mar 17, 2011 11:25 PM

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A lot of these websites say to send thank yous to people right after you receive them, but I think that, as long as you can keep track of who sent what, you should have no problems sending the thank yous after the wedding. The thank you cards wont be ready until afterward anyway, right?

adelya21 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 12:47 AM

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the Nos i got i doubt im getting a gift lol but i guess I will wait to see until afterf the wdding.

LindyBride22 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 08:02 AM

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I did them as they came in. If I do decide to get photo cards after the wedding I can always send them another one.

njoseph8 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 08:03 AM

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Posted by jovigirl414

A lot of these websites say to send thank yous to people right after you receive them, but I think that, as long as you can keep track of who sent what, you should have no problems sending the thank yous after the wedding. The thank you cards wont be ready until afterward anyway, right?

I feel the same way! I think I would want them to get a photo thank you.

suzie411 Posted: Mar 18, 2011 08:09 AM

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i was wondering the same thing. I did just get a 'no' and a check. I was thinking of sending a thank you now, and then a thank you with a picture and a favor after the wedding.