I always thought it was common for people to include a check or send a gift if there RSVP is no. I haven't had anyone do this yet.
What have you girls been noticing? Did people send gifts later on.. did they put it in the rsvp envelope or did they not do anything??
Have I been doing it wrong all this time?? lol
PhyllisNJoe
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People do it different ways. We have been getting checks with some of our Nos and I hear that others send it after the wedding. Don't know why. I guess it's based on what they prefer to do. I always send a gift with the rsvp.
AugustFeather
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I have only declined a wedding once a while back. I sent a check with a wedding card after the RSVP. I thought it was nicer and more personal to send a card. What pisses me off is I never got a THANK YOU!!! This was not a close friend and they wound up divorcing .. but I was really pissed that I didn't get any sort of thank you!
jenhef
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I personally always send a check with an rsvp... but a card could be what some people are planning on doing also..
AudioLoveStory
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We've only gotten 3 checks/gifts out of our insane amount of no's.
jenhef
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wow I can't believe that!
IrishAli
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I've gotten a few nos.....no gift yet with any of them
HSsweethearts
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I haven't gotten a gift with any no's yet
mellissapr
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Yeah i havent gotten any either with the no's that i got.
