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if my wedding is may 24, is it too early on the invitation to ask for rsvp's by April 15?

how are girls working their RSVPs with A and B list invites? are you keeping a second set of invites with an extended rsvp listed?

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My A list RSVP date is April 20 & my B list RSVP date is May 15

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I've read anywhere from 2-6 weeks before the big day. I did 6. I've heard a lot of opinions that it's 'too early,' but it makes me feel better knowing I have a lot of time to contact those that didn't RSVP and plan my seating chart.

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A month before is definitely not too early. It gives you time to track down anyone who rudely does not reply on time and still have time to give your venue a final count.

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A month is good! Like the other girls said you want enough time to get a final count especially those who are casually late on RSVP-ing

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I did a Feb 14 RSVP date for our March 23 wedding so I would say that your fine.

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I did a little over a month so I would be able to track down slackers and not have to rush to do it.

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I did 5 weeks before

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I did January 20th for a February 15th wedding. I sent mine invites out December 8th. I figured with the holidays it was good to give people extra time. It's been a week and the only confirmed guest are: My mom, my cousin, My moms cousin, 2 friends, and my FH grandpa! lol - I thought we'd have way more than that in the first week...ekkkkkkkk. lol.

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Posted by db276952

I did January 20th for a February 15th wedding. I sent mine invites out December 8th. I figured with the holidays it was good to give people extra time. It's been a week and the only confirmed guest are: My mom, my cousin, My moms cousin, 2 friends, and my FH grandpa! lol - I thought we'd have way more than that in the first week...ekkkkkkkk. lol.

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i always rsvp last minute just in case...

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Posted by ndeokinanan

I did 5 weeks before

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Me too

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thanks girls

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so if you're doing an a list and a b list, are you printing two separate invitations with two separate rsvp dates then?

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Posted by sportif7

so if you're doing an a list and a b list, are you printing two separate invitations with two separate rsvp dates then?

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No, invitations have the exact same info. Only the RSVP cards were printed with 2 different dates. One has an April 20th date & the other May 15th.

Your RSVP date wouldn't go on your actual invitation.

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im gonna when the time comes do like 6 weekes in advance you should be fine!

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Posted by sportif7

if my wedding is may 24, is it too early on the invitation to ask for rsvp's by April 15?

how are girls working their RSVPs with A and B list invites? are you keeping a second set of invites with an extended rsvp listed?

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I don't think that too early at all! I want to do about 6 weeks in advance.

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My RSVP date is also five weeks before by wedding!

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I don't think it is too early cuz chances are you will need to hunt some people down for an RSVP answer...people don't have courtesy to just respond anymore!

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IM doing 5 weeks before so I have time to track down people who didnt RSVP which makes me so mad.