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RSVP troubles

laurak102476 Posted:

RSVP troubles

I was thinking about sending out postcards to those who still haven't RSVP'd. We are short 50 (that's 50 couples and families)

Has anyone done this? If so, how did you word it??
lucky1010 Posted:

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We didn't but our RSVP date is today, so if by Saturday we don't have the remaining 35 cards back, we are going to start calling....

davenjess Posted:

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that's a GREAT idea honestly!

Maybe go to vista and get a pic of a calendar and circle the RSVP date with a ticking clock...

just a gentle reminder - time is ticking....

something like that!

if you hit the right sale at vista - they'll be free!
Bride908 Posted:

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My RSVP was friday. I started calling people yesterday and told FFIL to get on his side of the family for missing responses.

I personally wouldnt send something by mail again. If they didnt answer that way the first time I wouldnt try it again. Some people are just like that.... JMHO
mRm2008 Posted:

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IMO call

ant090608 Posted:

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My RSVP date is tomorrow, and I got 15 today. I am still missing over 80 people to make my min. I am waiting till next Monday and then calling all these slackers!

nifheim Posted:

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you wait at least 4 days after your rsvp date then start calling.

KimberlyScott Posted:

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I like the postcard idea but, also agree that if they didn;t reply the 1st time by mail, why would they again? I think it's much easier if you just call. Wait a week after the rsvp date, if you can.

Kricket212 Posted:

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Information from the mail carrier. One of my customers RSVP date was July 31 & I still delivered some today...hang in there ladies.

laurak102476 Posted:

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Thanks for the advice ladies....it's so funny, I made a few phone calls to close family and friends and they were all like, of course we are coming!! ( SO SEND IN THE STUPID CARD PEOPLE)
PegaLega Posted:

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I received ALOT of RSVPs the week following the date, Definitely wait a few days after your date then start calling

FCsBride914 Posted:

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My date was 8/1 and I am still waiting for about 60 cards. A post card idea is an excellent idea. Easier than calling.. I would try to make a little rhyme out of it but keep it nice and cute.

My FH came up with this... He actually really sat here and tried to come up with this... He's trying to be 'involved'

Just a reminder:

We would so like to have you, to celebrate our day
But we'll understand
If you can't make it our way
So please give us a call, or drop a post
So we'll know how many glasses to place
When we vow and make our toast

He's cute
marriedinmontauk Posted:

I love the poem!!!!!!

that poem is great.
I used sendomatic.com for my save-the-dates, but it would work well for a follow up.
It is not free, but should only cost you 10-15 dollars. I think it is much more elegant than e-vite.

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