I just got the mail and had some RSVP's and finally recieved my grandma's RSVP and its checked declined with no note included, no explanation, nothing. I have hardly any family coming to the family as it is-8 members, it would have been 9 with her and now she's not coming, she helped raised me and she won't be there. I'm sooo annoyed by this, she treated it like she doesn't know me and just checked the box. I know its hard for her to travel here, she lives in Kentucky now, but my mom was going to help her and make all the arrangements for her to come.
She was invited to the engagement party-didn't come, sent no card, invited to the shower-didn't come, sent no card, now this. I can't take it.
Thankfully I treat my friends as my family and they will all be there
Thanks for listening
lori7570
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Sorry lovie
I know you feel disappointed and I don't blame you. It would have been nice if she acknowledged these things. You know she loves you, and you may want to bring it up to her, let her know it hurt your feelings.
CloudNine
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awww teri that stinks. shes old and probably doesnt wanna travel. maybe she is sending an actual card seperately
AngnShaun
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that scuks... have you spoken to any other family members about it... maybe she didnt want to send a note with the RSVP...
Spring143
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sorry
Rosalind_75
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Posted by CloudNine
awww teri that stinks. shes old and probably doesnt wanna travel. maybe she is sending an actual card seperately
ita
chin up mama
T E R I
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The only other family that I speak to in KY is my aunt and her kids and my grandma stopped speaking to her about 6 years ago for some bs issues. My mom said she is going to call her about it tomorrow and find out what is going on.
The thing is my grandma is sooo weird that she seems to favor my older good for nothing cousins, instead of us (me, my sister and brother)
20mrsc10
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kimmaymb20
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awwwww Teri
I know it ***** but she loves you even if she doenst show it.
If you want Ill share my grandparents
Kimbiz1
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Aww
scatteredx12
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sorry to hear this... i had a similar situation happen so i know how crappy it feels... hope you feel better...
Tessie728
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weddings can be so stressful when it comes to family. You just have to try not to let it bother you....and if you REALLY think its gonna stick with you and bother you, maybe you should call her and see what her deal is?? I dunno, that might be what i'd do...
JenBill61210
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sorry to hear was she aware that there were going to be arrangements made for her to travel?
JAAMS
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MrsMartiniToBe
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Awww, I'm sorry. Did she know that your mom was going to help with her arrangements if she came?
Lsorrent
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Awww Teri I'm sorry to hear that
marinai7
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I'm sorry sweetie - I hope she gives you a call and at least discusses it with you.
es2189
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aww i'm so sorry!! that really s ucks. do you think your mom could talk to her and find out what's going on?
daniellek730
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I'm so sorry. My FH's grandmother would probably not come if it weren't for my FMIL. My FMIL is driving up to Buffalo and picking her up so that she will be there. No excuses, she knows that her mother normally wouldn't come.
