RSVP vent part A&B!!!

Ok, so my RSVP for my shower was on Jan 3rd because the (no longer surprise) bridal shower is on Jan 16th. Why is my sis/MOH still receiving phone calls to saying 'yes' they are coming.


Part B:
I get a call from my paternal cousin today asking me whether he could bring a date and whether he can speak at the wedding 'because it's only right.' I put one seat reserved in his name on the response card for a reason, why are people calling to request a guest???

people are so rude!!

I dread the RSVP drama. One more month before my invitations go out and for me to...