RSVP vent, people tell ME where THEY want to sit?

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Aug 12, 2009 02:59 PM

RSVP vent, people tell ME where THEY want to sit?

Get a RSVP back from FH neighbors, ( a week late mind you). Stating:

Hello Simeon, I dont want to next to any of the neighbors from sunset b/c I dont like them. Thank you.

You know where she is sitting right?

FH doesnt seem a problem with it, 'oh she is giving us a heads up?' It turned into a HUGE arguement b/c he thinks its ok. Mind you she wasnt even invited!! FH invited her SON and she asks him can she come too. The nerve of people.

kmiller Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:02 PM

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What planet is she from where that would be remotely acceptable?

People never cease to amaze

Future Mrs Roo Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:27 PM

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Posted by kmiller

What planet is she from where that would be remotely acceptable?

People never cease to amaze

I know, but FH thinks Im wrong for being annoyed

MoochsWifey Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:30 PM

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I'd sit her right in the middle of the people she doesn't want to sit with. If she doesn't like she can leave!

Dr Meg Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:31 PM

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I just went through this with my Mom when I showed her our seating chart. Apparently two of her cousins don't get along. I told her too bad, I am not entertaining peoples disagreements at my wedding, they can get over it for 4 hours.

Sarahgetsmarried Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:36 PM

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Posted by Dr Meg

I just went through this with my Mom when I showed her our seating chart. Apparently two of her cousins don't get along. I told her too bad, I am not entertaining peoples disagreements at my wedding, they can get over it for 4 hours.

Could have not been said better!!!

Sit her where you are going to sit her and she will like it. If she doesent, too bad. She needs to get over herself.

thenewmrsharrington Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:36 PM

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haha - i had a guy ask if he could please be seated at a table of all single ladies!

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Aug 12, 2009 03:52 PM

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i cant believe she asked you that and on top of that she wasn't even invited, she should be happy she got an invitation

kmiller Posted: Aug 12, 2009 04:03 PM

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Posted by Future Mrs Roo

Posted by kmiller

What planet is she from where that would be remotely acceptable?

People never cease to amaze

I know, but FH thinks Im wrong for being annoyed

Yea my FH thinks I get bent out of shape too easily too..He just doesn't care as much about details as I do...I wish I didn't care so much..

DKaye09 Posted: Aug 12, 2009 04:50 PM

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She can always go sit OUTSIDE of the RH...

MikesBride2B Posted: Aug 12, 2009 05:09 PM

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Just don't discuss it with FH. Is he really going to be seriously involved with the seating chart? Since she's obviously such a jerk, just sit her where you were going to sit her and hope that she has a miserable time. ;)

jennaandguy09 Posted: Aug 12, 2009 06:17 PM

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All I can tell you is that weddings bring out the STUPID in people, all in all, you sit for MAYBE an hour of the entire reception to eat, s u c k it up, and keep your mouth closed. You need to do whats good for you and not worry about anyone else!!

Nitania13 Posted: Aug 12, 2009 08:02 PM

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What balls man! That's some bullsh*t! I would sit her wherever I need to sit her. If you can accommodate her then great! And if not, then oh well. She wasn't even invited! What nerve!

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 12, 2009 08:06 PM

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Posted by Future Mrs Roo

Get a RSVP back from FH neighbors, ( a week late mind you). Stating:

Hello Simeon, I dont want to next to any of the neighbors from sunset b/c I dont like them. Thank you.

You know where she is sitting right?

FH doesnt seem a problem with it, 'oh she is giving us a heads up?' It turned into a HUGE arguement b/c he thinks its ok. Mind you she wasnt even invited!! FH invited her SON and she asks him can she come too. The nerve of people.

Id be pi$$ed but, I say you do what works for you.
My FMIL said to me she didnt want her SIL to sit with her but wanted the rest of his father's family at her table. I told herI Im not doing that. Either you sit with all of them or none at all. She got none at all. I dont care, I think of everyone and not just me but, she doesnt want her with her, she got that and that's it.