a few couples that I have never met but are invited to the wedding asked FH's family if they can bring their babies to the wedding...... I know i did not specify adults only reception, but no where on the invite did it say 'BYOB- bring your own baby'....
UPDATE: well.. FH talked to 1 couple and since their entire family is out of state and they have no one to watch the baby, they will be bringing the baby.... they don't feel comfortable leaving their baby with a stranger. So the deal is, no baby at the ceremony and at the reception, their table will be in a back corner. It was important to FH that they come, so I will not be a bridezilla for that (even though I don't know them). I do not know the status of the 2nd couple that asked.... we will have to wait and see for that one.
rosatemp
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People are ao rude!! Especially since you dont know them..what gives people the right to do this!..I'm sorry I hope your fh family told them no
IrishAli
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Ugh huh
Don't even get me started on the baby thing
So sorry
StephanieJoy
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wow so sorry hope it works out the way you want it to
AugustFeather
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BABIES!!! oi
NicoleandMichael
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Oy vey- I'm sorry hun.
Yankeeelove
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Ridiculous!!
justnicethings
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tell them that it's an adult-only reception.
if THAT doesn't fly, and means they won't be able to make it... do you really think you'll notice the babies? Seat the people far from you and not along the dance floor and I bet you won't even see them.
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NO!!!!!!!!!!
Haven't people heard of a babysitter? I mean, really.. a baby at a wedding? Do you WANT to be the person who pisses off the bride with a screaming baby? ! During the 'I do's'
.. that's an 'I Don't' right there
snowflakes11
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WOW - i noticed a lot more people are just inviting themselves with kids LOL what in the world is going on! LOL
kdm822
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lololol we havent sent ours out yet... but i dont plan on inviting kids
Irishbride16
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That is soooooo rude ....what is so hard on getting a babysitter ...I hate it when people ask that ..people don't think ..I'm so sorry but put down your foot its your wedding NOT theres.
CaughtMyFish
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I'm going to be a bridezilla once this happens. For real.
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Posted by CaughtMyFish
I'm going to be a bridezilla once this happens. For real.
AGREE 100% Seriously I have read on here that 2 people are invited and they RSVP 4 lol i mean really???? people are so tacky! LOL
If that happens to me, i will call and say 'Im sorry but why does your rsvp say 3 and not 2'
LOL
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Posted by CaughtMyFish
I'm going to be a bridezilla once this happens. For real.
THIS!
Moonmist09
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WHAT!!!!!!!!!!! i would just say no way! especially if i don't know them!
CaughtMyFish
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you know what scares me? FMIL's list. I dont know any of those people and dont know if they are the 'type' to RSVP for more than just the names on the envelope.
I really need to have a sit down talk with her soon. OY!
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I'm worried about this happening too. Why would anyone even want to bring thier babies to a wedding?!
FutureMrsJC
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I don't understand this - I feel like everyone goes through this at some point, and I just can't believe that there are so many people out there that want to bring their babies to a wedding! What is wrong with people?! We've had some people ask also, and we just said, Nope! Sorry! (It definitely caused A LOT of drama though!)
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ehhh how annoying.... I am already fore seeing issuses when it comes to my RSVP's and every time I read a story about them I get scared LOL
that's just rude and annoying! I would never do such a thing, first I believe a wedding is no place for a baby, and second its not like your invited to a backyard bbq so why would you ever think 'its just one extra person no biggie' rude people!
