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RSVP- what to do?

Original post by brittanygrace23

OK, i asked several of my friends and they all have different opnions.

I started to get my RSVPs back this week. Well I got one ( a guy my FH works with) back where we invited him and a guest. well i got a RSVP back for 5!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My jaw dropped, how rude, i guess the other 3 our his kids.

so do I make FH call him up and say like hey we are at the top of our guests and we weren't planning on have kids there or suck it up at take it like FH wants.

He told me its rude to call someone and tell them not to bring people, but I think its rude RSVPing for 5 when only 2 were invited.


HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
FutureMrsM Posted:

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Posted by mlcvln129

FH needs to man up and call this friend. Tell him to say that at this point, you cannot include the 3 extra people, but if you get any cancellations, there might be a possibility of including them--NOT GUARANTEED. It's not rude of FH to shoot down this 'friend'--the friend was quite rude for including more people when he was clearly invited with just a guest.



ITA! FH needs to say something! I wouldn't just suck it up and take it...
shyavon81 Posted:

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I did the same with my invites. I don't care who didn't like it, but why do people always taking liberties with other people's money. To hec with that!

Amberrenee6705 Posted:

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I would say call if you dont want kids there, because if you let one do it, you have to let them all bring them and your going to end up with way more guests than you intended...like me

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