RSVPs??????

prindia Posted: May 09, 2005 06:03 PM

RSVPs??????

Why is it taking people forever to mail out the RSVPs. I only got 12 back so far, sent out 56. I am really hating this. Did anyone experience this? My RSVP date is May 19, I just hope I get all of them my then

May05Bride Posted: May 09, 2005 08:00 PM

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my wedding is in 20 days, and I still have 12, that didn't respond!!!!

prindia Posted: May 09, 2005 08:06 PM

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Posted by May05Bride

my wedding is in 20 days, and I still have 12, that didn't respond!!!!

What is wrong with people? Did you contact them yet?

marc_rai Posted: May 09, 2005 08:08 PM

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I have 34 back, but I sent out like 204. I still have a week to go though. When is your deadline. What I'm noticing is that the YES responds quickly.

prindia Posted: May 09, 2005 08:12 PM

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Posted by marc_rai

I have 34 back, but I sent out like 204. I still have a week to go though. When is your deadline. What I'm noticing is that the YES responds quickly.

so far, I have not got a No yet. My RSVP date is next week Thursday. I really want to start my Votive Place cards

marc_rai Posted: May 09, 2005 08:32 PM

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You can start. Just do it with the ones that responded back. Oh I got the money order. Did you get the votives yet?

AnniesSS Posted: May 09, 2005 08:39 PM

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OUr RSVP date is May 20 and I still have 20 that have not yet responded....

We received an invitation to our friend's wedding upstate - got the invite on Thursday and mailed the RSVP back on Friday - but we STILL haven't gotten their's back yet

I think it's a very simple and convenient process.... don't know what's other people's problem.

azoodie Posted: May 09, 2005 10:43 PM

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we had the same problem...all family...they think they're above rsvping for some reason

lilacwine Posted: May 10, 2005 08:35 AM

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I don't understand it either. Several of my relatives just did not respond at all.

On the other hand, my wedding is this week and some people have begun to re-respond -- five cancellations and one cousin who called twice to make sure we know he isn't bringing a guest.

diamondgrlie Posted: May 10, 2005 09:09 AM

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It happens to everyone! It was my biggest pet peeve out of everything... just wait... I have people who said they were coming alone asking if they can bring someone now.

adioguardi Posted: May 10, 2005 09:39 AM

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Not looking forward to that stress!

italia6973 Posted: May 10, 2005 10:46 AM

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Posted by adioguardi

Not looking forward to that stress!

Me neither! As if we aren't stressed enough.

Katherine121 Posted: May 10, 2005 10:58 AM

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They'll start trickling in, don't worry. I am a firm, FIRM believer, that wedding invitations should go out early. My wedding date is May 21st. I mailed out my invites the first week of March with an RSVP date of April 4th. Lots of people responded really soon, and lots of people did not, and I had to call people up and say 'HELLO - are ya comin' or what?'

Trust me, people do things at the last minute. They'll start to pour in at the last minute.

jersee3380 Posted: May 10, 2005 12:40 PM

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i made a rsvp date of 8/6 and our wedding date is 8/28 ... i'm thinking i didnt allow for enough time ... so i am going to mail them out by 5/25 .... i'm hoping people get the hint and send them back asap!

ckgmwedding Posted: May 10, 2005 02:13 PM

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I just want to get a NO please! Everyone has gotten their invites except for a few that the calligrapher still has to send. Only a few replies but all YES! I need 15 no's!