RSVP's

So my sis was invited to a wedding and i saw her response card sitting on her table and I asked her why she didnt mail it in yet? She said well, I dont know who I am bringing yet. I said well were you invited with a guest?? She said no. I said well why are you going to bring a guest if you were not invited with a guest? She said well, the envelope didnt say and guest, but the response card has the line for how many people you are bringing so that means I can bring a guest! I told her no and just write '1' and send it back.

After that issue with my sister, I started to get scared about the responses I am going to get to my wedding. Anyone else think about this sort of thing??

hmm, I didn't think about that. I'm inviting most with guest but there are a few single girls that i dont just want randomly asking a guy to come.. im thinking maybe those girls could just come together.
hopefully they will have ppl like you to remind them what the card means

oh great - another thing to stress out over.

I'm worried about some of FH's friends doing this very thing....

ours will have

__/__ will attend and I will either write in the # invited or print it out when I get to that step.

I can't have FH's friends inviting everyone they know to our wedding
I could see a few of his friends saying
hey did you know so and so is getting married oh you didn't get the invite.... well come with me

I was worried about this, and I am specifying 'and guest' or not.

Tessa, of Evening Star Paperie, is going to print my response cards like this:

Mr and Mrs John Smith, there are two seats reserved for you at our reception

____ of us will be attending

____ regretfully, I/we cannot attend

So, each card will be personalized . . . . basically, she just has to print each one separately, but no more materials, etc., I just send her a list of names and # invited . . . .

Great idea!!!

I'm purposely having 'how many will attend' on my response so that if people put more then '1' and they aren't invited with a guest I can call their a$$ up and say 'um no' haha

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Posted by sofreakingexcited

I'm purposely having 'how many will attend' on my response so that if people put more then '1' and they aren't invited with a guest I can call their a$$ up and say 'um no' haha

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LOL good freakin idea!