A lot of NO's!! Very upsetting! Grated a lot are OOT but still.....very upsetting! Some of these people I've known since childhood!
shcole08
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oh, no! That isn't very nice. Peoples true colors come out during weddings. Its ok at least they are telling you! I am missing 60 and my RSVP date was 2 days ago
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we had the same thing happen, and i got a ton of ... 'sorry we will be on vacation, and we planned it months ago'
HELLO!!!!!! u got the effing STD over a year ago dumba$$!!!!!!!!!
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I'm so sorry!
FtrMrsV
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Im sorry but try not to worry because your going to be receiving a lot of yes' also
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Posted by agraydc
we had the same thing happen, and i got a ton of ... 'sorry we will be on vacation, and we planned it months ago'
HELLO!!!!!! u got the effing STD over a year ago dumba$$!!!!!!!!!
same here !
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ant090608
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Posted by shcole08
oh, no! That isn't very nice. Peoples true colors come out during weddings. Its ok at least they are telling you! I am missing 60 and my RSVP date was 2 days ago
I agree..I thought a wedding was supposed to be a joyous occasion. Well, you can tell those that are happy and those that are just plain jealous!
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I remember when we started getting No's and its sad. You dont picture opening the envelope and seeing a no especially if its someone you expected would be coming. I also find that odd that certain people wouldn't call first and give an explanation or a warning, but I guess it can be awkward. Don't worry, you'll def have more yes's than nos!!
KK Holiday
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i'll admit it is hard to see the nos rolling in but once you get all the Yes's (and youll get a lot of those) youll feel better!!!
luna bride x
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i'm sorry! it REALLY suucks.
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Posted by BeccaJo
I remember when we started getting No's and its sad. You dont picture opening the envelope and seeing a no especially if its someone you expected would be coming. I also find that odd that certain people wouldn't call first and give an explanation or a warning, but I guess it can be awkward. Don't worry, you'll def have more yes's than nos!!
OMG I thought I was the only one who felt that if we are close that you either call and tell me why you can't make it, or write it on the rsvp card. When I said this to a few family members, they thought I was nuts.
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Posted by SparkyandAng
Posted by BeccaJo
I remember when we started getting No's and its sad. You dont picture opening the envelope and seeing a no especially if its someone you expected would be coming. I also find that odd that certain people wouldn't call first and give an explanation or a warning, but I guess it can be awkward. Don't worry, you'll def have more yes's than nos!!
OMG I thought I was the only one who felt that if we are close that you either call and tell me why you can't make it, or write it on the rsvp card. When I said this to a few family members, they thought I was nuts.
I found that we did on most or at least got a note or explanation on the response card but thats was mostly for my family/friends. FH's family is from OOT and their No's RSVPS were usually blank. I guess its a regional thing
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mrspalomino148
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aw we had this too, it stinks having soo many OOTers, but it will be an amazing day no matter what!
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More no's = less $$ to lay out. I WISH I had more no's.
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We got a lot of 'No's' as well - love when the write a dissertation on the card as to why they can't attend. You can justify it in your mind all you want - the point is you aren't coming and I don't really care why you can't. You really get to know who your real friends / family are!
Yes that sounds very bridezilla of me but it still upsets me greatly and I did take the regrets personally even though I know I shouldn't.
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We haven't received many No's yet and I know there are plenty more to come. Don't worry though, you'll have lots of Yes's coming soon! Family and friends that will be there just take FOREVER to send the RSVP if they send it at all!
