RSVP's coming in and .....

I've been kinda nervous about that happening to me since it's right near Christmas. That's why I'm making the RSVP date 7 weeks before the wedding - to give me time to call all the procrastinators who refuse to RSVP on time and so that I can invite some of those last minute people if need be

Don't worry - I'm sure a lot of people will be there. But i know it hurts when the ones you're 'close with' say they won't come. I have an uncle in Pa who already told me that he can't get off work and most of my FH's side also won't be able to come in from Co. It's tough not to take it personal. I completely understand.

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Posted by Mimacat

More no's = less $$ to lay out. I WISH I had more no's.

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I hear ya! So far all my responses have been Yes. I'm kind of looking forward to gettting some no's. Hahaha.

But I do understand how it can be upsetting to get a no from people you totally expect to come. Try not to take it personally. Look on the bright side, you definitely have more Yes's than no's.

Try not to be too down, it's still early and I'm sure the people you truly need there will attend. Hang in there, I know how you feel though.

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Posted by jessnstu08

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Posted by agraydc

we had the same thing happen, and i got a ton of ...
'sorry we will be on vacation, and we planned it months ago'

HELLO!!!!!! u got the effing STD over a year ago dumba$$!!!!!!!!!

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same here !

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SAME HERE


peoples true colors and feeling are shown while wedding planning and its soo sad =[

Unfortunetly just because you sent the STD doesnt mean people are going to make your wedding a priority it hurts but they dont. Some may alter there plans and some may leave it.
I wouldnt think they were jealous if they didnt come i would just take it as oh well less $$ to lay out and other people i had maybe X'd off my list can come. Especially for Out of town guests, travel is expensive these days. Dont feel bad it will still be a special day. LONG AS FH SHOWS nothing else should matter..lol