Rude comments and questions about long engagement.

People can be so incredibly rude and judgmental. Everyone has their own reasons for waiting or not waiting. Situations differ and people don't realize that. If I had gotten engaged at the beginning of grad school I would have def waited until I was closer to being finished. I'm already getting...'so when are you going to have babies?' My favorite answer is 'When we're ready, I'll let you know.' Quiets them down in a second =)