rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Original post by failurebydsign

Jan 22, 2007 02:23 PM

i have a good one..

when looking at wedding bands..mine is a black diamond etrnity band the jeweler said i look like, and i quote, 'filthy white trash' and laughed and said 'a little morbid'

ant n tilde Posted: Jan 23, 2007 10:15 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by JeanineHubert

Posted by ShanonandSteve

I just found out two days ago that someone asked my sister why FH was marrying me..

Something about us having nothing in common..

this coming from someone who knows nothing about me.

shan:
ur talking about someone who talks like the big lug from the goonies. lol

HEYY YOU GUYSSSSSSSSSSS

Kimbalina Posted: Jan 23, 2007 10:27 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by tdebe

I was also told by my dad that if he was FH, he would cheat on me because he's never been with another girl. Yeah, Thanks Dad.

WOW!!

cherish83 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 10:31 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by tdebe

I was also told by my dad that if he was FH, he would cheat on me because he's never been with another girl. Yeah, Thanks Dad.

Oh my gosh

Autumn08 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 10:31 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by ZeppsGirl

No one has said anything rude to me yet...and I will imply yet!!!!

But for those of you when people think that they can be rude just tell them that they are jealous of you and smile.
Dont hate me because Im beautiful!
I love when I get a reaction from that.

But rude people suck. Why do people have the right to mistreat anyone or think that they have the right not to curve their lip.

I was just thinking that when someone says something inappropriate instead of telling them they are jealous... jsut be honest and tell them 'rude people suck' and leave it at that!

Autumn08 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 10:41 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

'Don't spend a lot on your wedding, it's going to end up in divorce anyway'

ToniLee326 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 11:16 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by ant n tilde

ha ha probably my mom saying i am going to have the most boring wedding ever.

or the countless people asking why i would plan a wedding when there could be a blizzard

I get that all the time too! I just say so what, I will wear Uggs. lol

nifheim Posted: Jan 23, 2007 11:35 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

'i get is everyone in FH's side going to be drunk and harrass our side.' I tol my mom they will drink but not be plastered.. thats what the after party hotel or bar hop is for. Smiled and walked away.

'why spend soo much money on a wedding its so silly. I regret spending money on a wedding its just a few hours of a day' - every married person in my family says this. I am spending under 20k on everything i think thats not a lot considering what i read what people are spending. I simply tell them its such a waste maybe then i shouldn't invite you. I get that open mouth gap look and i just laugh and say just kidden. we both laugh and i get my point across.

Kimbalina Posted: Jan 23, 2007 11:39 AM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

yikes,, that would be a drawer dropper

lizzynyu Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:31 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

My grandmother said the same thing to me. She is so excited that I'm marrying my FH and she tells me 'oh you're my first grandchild (on my mom's side) to get married'. We're getting married in November of 2007, and my grandfather is turning 90 in October of this year and she keeps telling me and EVERYONE, 'no matter what happens with Papa, I want you to continue on with your wedding. I don't want you to stop your wedding if God forbid...' and then I have to stop her and I'm like Mema (that's my name for her), please don't talk like that. It's not rude or anything but it hurts because i don't want to think like that and i don't want her to think like that either. I'm praying that he makes it to the wedding and beyond!

The other thing that isn't rude but just kind of annoying and frustrating to explain is when we go talk to DJ's and explain that we don't want the father/daughter dance and we'd prefer just a mother dance between FH and his mom and me and my mom. My father is in a nursing home after having a massive stroke nearly 13 years ago so it is awkward to explain and i don't want to dance with anyone for that. My mom and uncle are walking me down the aisle but as much as i look at my uncle as a father figure, he's still not my dad. But I get a look every time from the DJ's when I explain I don't want it in, as if i'm doing something wrong by not having it. I'd much prefer to dance with my mom anyway b/c she's my best friend. Hey, if anyone has any good ideas for songs that me and FH can dance with our mothers to, it would be greatly appreciated. I could only think of Wind Beneath My Wings but i wasn't sure.

truelove5803 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:37 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

i can't remember exactly but I think it was boys 2 men that sang a song called 'mama' I always really liked that song.

nifheim Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:48 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by Kimbalina

yikes,, that would be a drawer dropper

it makes me giggle when i do stuff like that IoI

LuvMyAlfonse Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:52 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by nifheim

'why spend soo much money on a wedding its so silly. I regret spending money on a wedding its just a few hours of a day'

I get that ALL the time. I just want to say STFU, you had your day already - pizz off.

Megs4 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:54 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

We announced our engagement at Thanksgiving dinner to my extended family. My aunt asked me when the wedding would be, and I told her I had no idea. We only got engaged two days earlier, and I said I wanted to enjoy being engaged through the holidays and then start to plan.

She said 'Well, you must have an IDEA of when.' When I said not yet - that we hadn't even had time to talk about it, she rolled her eyes and said said, 'Oh I see, you are one of those people who just 'gets engaged.'' --as if I didn't take it seriously.

That same aunt hit me again on Christmas, when another relative said that she thought my ring was the most beautiful ring she had ever seen. My aunt jumped in with 'Well, I wouldn't say THAT...'

Oh well! We can't let them get to us, right?

truelove5803 Posted: Jan 23, 2007 03:58 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

I once had someone at work look at my ering and say 'oh that is so sparkly and so big...it must be fake' I was like WHAT!!!! No way! My man loves me just that much! (It's not even like its that big...a little over a carat)

cbcf Posted: Jan 23, 2007 04:29 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Sorry to crash your boards but I have some rude things people have said to me regarding being engaged:

1. My aunt said about her daughter (my cousin) that I should be ashamed of not having her in my BP and having a friend instead (A BEST FRIEND SINCE I WAS 7yrs old) and I am not even close to my cousin nor have I ever been.

2. A co-worker came up to me today cause she found out I was recently engaged and she is only 2 yrs older than me( she is 23) and said 'Omg your ring is gorgeous, how may carats?' When I told her it was 1.5 (and not a solitare it has side stones) she said 'Oh really well it looks smaller and well I guess for someone your age it will do'

WHAT!!! and then I found out later she said to another co-worker 'Catie's ring is pretty but I better get a bigger one from John (I guess her bf) especially since I am older' What the hell does that have to do with it....

3. A well I guess so-called friend who I met through FH bec her bf is in the Marines with mine said: OH congrats on getting engaged I am happy. I know Me and Andrew will be engaged when he come home from Japan in May and we are definitely going to have our wedding before you guys do because he will be done with the Marines then and your FH still has a year and 1/2 left so it's only fair.' But I dont care I know her f has cheated on her several times--- who has the better relationship and more loving and trusting one= FH AND I!!!

ShanonandSteve Posted: Jan 23, 2007 04:45 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Posted by ant n tilde

Posted by JeanineHubert

Posted by ShanonandSteve

I just found out two days ago that someone asked my sister why FH was marrying me..

Something about us having nothing in common..

this coming from someone who knows nothing about me.

shan:
ur talking about someone who talks like the big lug from the goonies. lol

HEYY YOU GUYSSSSSSSSSSS

I most definetly am. You know i cant wait to ask her why she said that and have her deny it to my face.

like i would believe my sister is lying to me! ha!

dancinmyazoff Posted: Jan 23, 2007 05:31 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

Wow, I can't believe some of the things that some of your friends, acquantances, coworkers and family have said. I guess 'so far' people haven't made any rude comments to me.

Blondie77 Posted: Jan 24, 2007 04:48 PM

Re: rudest thing someone said about your wedding planning ( taken from 05 boards)

my personal favorite is 'why are you having so many bridesmaids?'

my response: 'Of all things, why do you care?'

Complain about the food, the band/dj, the location or the date....but the number of bridemaids I have? So there are four extra people walking around in matching dresses. IGNORE THEM IF YOU DONT LIKE IT.