If I don't vent this out i'm going to explode and literally smash something so don't mind me i'm just throwing a tantrum. FH is so seriously on my SH1T LIST it's not even funny!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Every single thing I want to do for this wedding is an arguement no matter what it is, he has something to say and nags and annoys the crap out of me!!!!!! Why can't he just be a regular guy and stay out of things sometimes, he is so bad he even went so far as to dictate what material and style my girls dresses can be! He had something to say about flowers, limo, hall blah blah blah blah blah it's like listening to Charlie Brown in my ear every single day WAH WAH WAH WAY until I want to literally do this -->
I can't even hear myself think sometimes because the minute I open my mouth about something I want for the wedding he becomes a nag and starts arguing with me, I want to smash him! Last night I was upset b/c we've been to numerous places for invites and I couldn't find anything I liked and he was getting sick of me so I got upset at dinner and all emotional of course. So we get home and as i'm sitting on my laptop I get a message on the computer from him to go to a website and it is the most BEAUTIFUL invites I have ever seen in my life! I totally fell in love with them and was so happy and tearing up and all hugging him and stuff. So this morning I mention to him that i'd like to get prices on a calligrapher and he starts all over again NAG NAG NAG about how much it costs and why can't we just get labels and stick them on! I really don't want to do labels and I didn't say I was GOING to do the calligraphy, I don't even know how much it costs!!!! but he would not shut up he kept going for 45 minutes....no exxageration! So I finally freaked out and started screaming and yelling that i'm done planning anything b/c he's a nagging pain in the A and well I haven't heard from him in the last hour and a half. lol. But really I'm so sick of his mouth....!!
Oh....and the most priceless comment was....'oh, u just have to do it b/c ur girlfriends on LIWEDDINGS are doing it!!!!!!!!!!' I wanted to smack him!
ugh. sorry so long, I feel much much MUCH better now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SparkyandAng
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You should come up with crazy crazy ideas, at least he would have something to argue over. Only problem is he likes your crazy ideas.
blaine08
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i usually just do whatever i want about the wedding then FH yells at me about it later!
Hope u felt better after the vent!
Mici n KC
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Just start doing what you want (like get prices for calligraphy) without mentioning anything to him. It will help save your sanity!
KK Holiday
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sorry you are going through this with FH
sometimes my FH does the same thing, and his excuse is always 'youre just doing it cause of LIW brides'
well DUHHHHHHHHH!!
just try to enjoy as much of the planning process as possible...you dont have to tell FH every little idea you have. i know that sounds secretive but you can just tell him ideas that you really want and that you are planning to put into action. good luck!
