Man oh man this week was nuts...I didnt have a day off at all...we had our NYSSMA (music festival) friday afternoon/evening and all day saturday and I worked at the bridal salon today...i can't wait until summer when I can be a human again! Ever feel like you never have time to breathe? I feel like I work at school, teach privately, work at the salon and then struggle to even fnd time to exercise for myself! Argh!
just needed to vent...thanks for allowing it!
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I completely understand. My mom and FH think I am nuts for taking this extra job - maybe they are right, but I want to feel like I am not going into debt paying for this wedding... I know my school work is suffering - I need to figure out how to get it all done.
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I completely understand. My mom and FH think I am nuts for taking this extra job - maybe they are right, but I want to feel like I am not going into debt paying for this wedding... I know my school work is suffering - I need to figure out how to get it all done.
I totally agree...I needed to take this job because we really needed the money...I just get so frustrated becasue I feel like we are both working so hard and are still struggling. My planning has suffered, my lessons are so not what i want them to be...i feel like I am half-a s sing everything! so not the way i work!
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vent all you want. i know the i cannot breathe feeling all too well- in it right now till vacation in a few weeks- hang in there as summer will be here soon
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Im sooo sorry Lauren but, in time you'll get inot the swing of things and then the summer will come and it'll be easier!!!! Here some coming your way.
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I completely understand. My mom and FH think I am nuts for taking this extra job - maybe they are right, but I want to feel like I am not going into debt paying for this wedding... I know my school work is suffering - I need to figure out how to get it all done.
I totally agree...I needed to take this job because we really needed the money...I just get so frustrated becasue I feel like we are both working so hard and are still struggling. My planning has suffered, my lessons are so not what i want them to be...i feel like I am half-a s sing everything! so not the way i work!
I try not to think about this but I think part of my frustration/annoyance is that I am the only one busting my butt... Fh hasn't change much since the engagement... meanwhile I stopped ballroom dancing to save money, started tutoring 3-4 times a week... picked up the puppy job... MOVED OUT OF MY APARTMENT AND BACK IN WITH MY PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I completely understand. My mom and FH think I am nuts for taking this extra job - maybe they are right, but I want to feel like I am not going into debt paying for this wedding... I know my school work is suffering - I need to figure out how to get it all done.
I totally agree...I needed to take this job because we really needed the money...I just get so frustrated becasue I feel like we are both working so hard and are still struggling. My planning has suffered, my lessons are so not what i want them to be...i feel like I am half-a s sing everything! so not the way i work!
I try not to think about this but I think part of my frustration/annoyance is that I am the only one busting my butt... Fh hasn't change much since the engagement... meanwhile I stopped ballroom dancing to save money, started tutoring 3-4 times a week... picked up the puppy job... MOVED OUT OF MY APARTMENT AND BACK IN WITH MY PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You sound like me Im doing everything to watch the money flow and just got another job, babysitting. While he is doing the same old stuff and not cutting back on anything
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I try not to think about this but I think part of my frustration/annoyance is that I am the only one busting my butt... Fh hasn't change much since the engagement... meanwhile I stopped ballroom dancing to save money, started tutoring 3-4 times a week... picked up the puppy job... MOVED OUT OF MY APARTMENT AND BACK IN WITH MY PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh man...that would REALLY frustrate me...I felt guilty because FH had a 3rd job for a few months (its since ended..he directed a show at a college) so I went and got this job. I really like it but its just time that i didnt have before!
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Sorry Lauren. You should take a day off and just relax in your pjs all day long!
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Oh man that's crazy! Hope you get back to full again
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i have been wondering what happened to ya!!! we dont get to talk as much as we used to! only another 1 1/2 months and you'll be able to breathe again... and maybe find time in your day to hang out again
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deep breathes...its almost over!
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knowing how you feel.. these last few weeks have been insane!!
KNew I didn't see ya at Paradise.. I was in there on saturday with danielle .. she was helping me with BM dresses
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I completely understand. My mom and FH think I am nuts for taking this extra job - maybe they are right, but I want to feel like I am not going into debt paying for this wedding... I know my school work is suffering - I need to figure out how to get it all done.
I totally agree...I needed to take this job because we really needed the money...I just get so frustrated becasue I feel like we are both working so hard and are still struggling. My planning has suffered, my lessons are so not what i want them to be...i feel like I am half-a s sing everything! so not the way i work!
i am right there with you ladies... my fh is working his one job and i am teaching and working after school tuesday - saturday.... i was expecting to do summer school and just found out we arent having any this year and i had a panic attack and my fh is like don't worry... dont worry!!! IT is really frustrating... he isnt even depostiting any money inot the account and i paid for out invites, precana, my bm gifts.... man, it is so annoying...
sorry but i had to vent.. i am glad i am not the only one!
I try not to think about this but I think part of my frustration/annoyance is that I am the only one busting my butt... Fh hasn't change much since the engagement... meanwhile I stopped ballroom dancing to save money, started tutoring 3-4 times a week... picked up the puppy job... MOVED OUT OF MY APARTMENT AND BACK IN WITH MY PARENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You sound like me Im doing everything to watch the money flow and just got another job, babysitting. While he is doing the same old stuff and not cutting back on anything
azailia
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i am doing the same thing... working after school tues- saturday and he is doing nothing... nothing...nothing!!!!
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wow - you have a lot on your plate!!! You will get through it....
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i can't wait until summer when I can be a human again!
can i get a heII yeah
MrsDrinkh20
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i have been wondering what happened to ya!!! we dont get to talk as much as we used to! only another 1 1/2 months and you'll be able to breathe again... and maybe find time in your day to hang out again
I know...it's terrible..by the time I get home I just want to go to sleep so i can't chat! At least I have saturday evenings off usually. After this weekend things should die down a tiny bit I suppose! Blah! I miss my friends and having a life1 hahah
Thanks for the support ladies!
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Sorry to hear that but, the summer will be better and I'm sure next year you will say it was all worth it.
