Sorry that you are having a bad week so far.. but it is only half over and it is going to get better!
skinny237
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Awwww......sorry u r feeling so sad!
davenjess
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thanks girls - it's hard to control how upsetting it is...seriously. I truly didn't think anything would stop my Godmother from coming...
Dave's mom is CRAZY & she destroyed her relationship with her family & because of that it ruined Dave's relationship with them and his sisters' as well...so it's a whole lot of fun....
i'm just feeling down....
thanks for the hugs & all the kind words...
we should've eloped after all!
RSVP DATE: December 7th, has come & gone btw.
kellybean
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Dont be sad I will be there and given u guys lots of love !!
Future Mulligan
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your wedding will be great. dont stop looking foward to it because of other people. i know that you are down right now but think about all the people who are coming to celebrate!
laura33
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Please dont be sad...A marriage is really about you and your husband..you are going to have a wonderful day regardless because you will have EACH OTHER.......
minibride08
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for you! Sorry you're having a tough week.... The people who will be at your wedding to celebrate will do just that! And those that you want to be there but can't, will absolutely be there in spirit. And the others - F*(&^%^ THEM b/c it will be even better with out them there!!!
ant n tilde
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trust me on your day it could be just you and dave and you will be the happiest bride in the world - i promise!
FutureMrsRice
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Jess!! You have 70+ people coming just to celebrate you and Dave They get to see you in your beautiful dress and everything. You are going to have the most wonderful wedding ever!
bemyyoko
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oh sweety, don't be sad. People LOVE you. LOVE YOU LOTS and LOTS. weddings just kind of make some people suck.
don't be sad. i'll do whatever i can to make sure you're not sad.
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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse
Don't feel sad. The people who truly love you and Dave will be there (barring financial difficulties obviously) and you will have the most wonderful day.
When you look back on your wedding - you'll look back with joy and love and elation. The people who can't make it b/c of finances don't love you any less and the people who aren't coming b/c of his crazy mom - well - you won't miss them anyway.
It's b/c you got into work so early. Goddamn these early mornings.
Couldn't have said it better myself.
davenjess
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thanks girls....
i know it's not about people coming to the wedding - but i think of things like my brothers' wedding 3 years ago and every single member of my family came and it was so nice...
kellybean
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Love you Jess !!! You rock ! sorry you had a bad day tell dave to give you a back rub you earned it !!!
MAY24BRIDE
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It definitely ***** when people you really wanted there can't come for whatever reason. I'm sorry. You've heard a lot of encouraging, positive words, so I'd just like to give you a hug....
RKellner
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WOW! I am so sorry to hear about all that! Keep your head up!!!
beachbum05
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Look at everyone who IS coming!!!
Focus on the positive!!!
Your wedding is going to be wonderful!! We all love ya!!!
mathteach
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You are without a doubt, besides DebisMom , the most thoughtful and giving person on these boards. It is their loss to not be with you on your wedding day and I only hope that you realize this. I wish you nothing but joy and happiness and remember, you will be there and so will Dave. Everyone else is just icing on the cake.
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Aww im so sorry jess! I know how you feel though, I was surprised by some of the No's I got as well, but in the end on that day its not going to matter who wasn't there, but who was there! Your going to have an amazing day regardless, because you love one another and that means the most!
DCLM726
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Try not to be sad. Your wedding is going to be fantastic no matter what. Remember, its all about you and dave and the love that you share.
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Jess, just wanted to send my hugs and love to you because you are the one thats been keeping me sane these days.
Just remember, family is more than the people related by blood. Family are also the ones that will be there for you no matter what and love you when you are up, down and all shades.
FAMILY IS LIW!!!!!!!
I you sweetie. It will work out and you will have the most amazing day in your life no matter WHAT I have to do!!!!!!!