sad :(

mines the same way...u arent alone!!!!! mine will clean but hes not affectionate/romantic at all...and like u said weve had several fights about it and he'll be good for a few days and thats all ive gotten used to it but i still hate it

i'm sorry
you need to talk to him
does he know you are sad?
does he know he is making you sad??

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

I'm sorry to hear this...you should try talking to him again...he should be more romantic towards you if you need that but also remember that us girls often want the movie type romance and I think that is very few and far between - so don't feel so bad! Think also, of the things that make you love FH!!

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Posted by stlmn2u

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

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i might take u up on that....

weve lived together for about 2 years and before we moved to FL it wasnt like this....i just think hes stressed and we have no friends to hang out with so its so hard.

i told him when he talks to me i feel like he should rub my face in the carpet cuz i peed on it or something....like a bad dog :(

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Posted by stlmn2u

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

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Well as someone that lived w/ her FH now for a bit. I'll tell you one thing that moving in with someone can be traumatic & not so fun at first. Shoot you can get on each others nerves for a good year before you are less likely to kill each other

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Posted by Jamnike

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Posted by stlmn2u

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

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i might take u up on that....

weve lived together for about 2 years and before we moved to FL it wasnt like this....i just think hes stressed and we have no friends to hang out with so its so hard.

i told him when he talks to me i feel like he should rub my face in the carpet cuz i peed on it or something....like a bad dog :(

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Oh you're funny. I usually tell him that I am confident and funny around everyone but him, where he makes me feel like a big, fat failure. I hate him sometimes. Boys are dumb.

I'm sorry he makes you feel that way. Truly. FM me if you need to chat.

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Posted by Celest

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Posted by stlmn2u

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

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Well as someone that lived w/ her FH now for a bit. I'll tell you one thing that moving in with someone can be traumatic & not so fun at first. Shoot you can get on each others nerves for a good year before you are less likely to kill each other

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so don't feel so bad, it will eventually smooth out the bumps

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Posted by mathteach

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Posted by Jamnike

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Posted by stlmn2u

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

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i might take u up on that....

weve lived together for about 2 years and before we moved to FL it wasnt like this....i just think hes stressed and we have no friends to hang out with so its so hard.

i told him when he talks to me i feel like he should rub my face in the carpet cuz i peed on it or something....like a bad dog :(

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Oh you're funny. I usually tell him that I am confident and funny around everyone but him, where he makes me feel like a big, fat failure. I hate him sometimes. Boys are dumb.

I'm sorry he makes you feel that way. Truly. FM me if you need to chat.

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lol i get mad at him cuz he never tells me i look nice or anything, i wear my hair how he likes n he doenst say anything.....im like u dont even find me attractive and hes like i do tooo! THEN TELL ME dUMB DUMB!

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Posted by Mimacat

Are we marrying the same man?

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idk...urs make u feel like a bad doggie too?


(that could totally be interpreted wrong hehe)

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Posted by Jamnike

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Posted by mathteach

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Posted by Jamnike

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Posted by stlmn2u

I need you to know that you are not alone....
I crave attention and affection and FH gives it to me for a couple of days and then it's back to square one....He also gets mad at me at the drop of a hat.....I think it's stress....Maybe the fact that we will be living together in 2 months....Who knows? I just hope it gets better....
Just know that you are not alone....=)
FM me if ya need to chat....

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i might take u up on that....

weve lived together for about 2 years and before we moved to FL it wasnt like this....i just think hes stressed and we have no friends to hang out with so its so hard.

i told him when he talks to me i feel like he should rub my face in the carpet cuz i peed on it or something....like a bad dog :(

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Oh you're funny. I usually tell him that I am confident and funny around everyone but him, where he makes me feel like a big, fat failure. I hate him sometimes. Boys are dumb.

I'm sorry he makes you feel that way. Truly. FM me if you need to chat.

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lol i get mad at him cuz he never tells me i look nice or anything, i wear my hair how he likes n he doenst say anything.....im like u dont even find me attractive and hes like i do tooo! THEN TELL ME dUMB DUMB!

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weve had this exact fight several times.... guys are seriously stupid

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Oh you're funny. I usually tell him that I am confident and funny around everyone but him, where he makes me feel like a big, fat failure. I hate him sometimes. Boys are dumb.

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oh my gosh that's awful. have you told him that he makes you feel like a failure? that must be an awful feeling. i certainly couldn't handle that!

i think sometimes we all get into a rut and we get comfortable that we forget to do things we used to..

i started to notice that i wasnt complimenting FH on how he looks (ie: you look very handsome etc) or making a big deal and thanking him for things he does for me, because i just got comfortable and forgot that HE needs to hear that too.

have yo tried the reverse psychology type way.. try complimenting him a lot and thanking him a lot for the things he does.. maybe instead of getting into fights about it if you stt doing that he will GET THE HINT?

gl hun!

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Posted by jgl



i think sometimes we all get into a rut and we get comfortable that we forget to do things we used to..

i started to notice that i wasnt complimenting FH on how he looks (ie: you look very handsome etc) or making a big deal and thanking him for things he does for me, because i just got comfortable and forgot that HE needs to hear that too.

have yo tried the reverse psychology type way.. try complimenting him a lot and thanking him a lot for the things he does.. maybe instead of getting into fights about it if you stt doing that he will GET THE HINT?

gl hun!

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i compliment him all the time....and when i say that i really mean ALL the time. Everyday

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Posted by Jamnike

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Posted by jgl



i think sometimes we all get into a rut and we get comfortable that we forget to do things we used to..

i started to notice that i wasnt complimenting FH on how he looks (ie: you look very handsome etc) or making a big deal and thanking him for things he does for me, because i just got comfortable and forgot that HE needs to hear that too.

have yo tried the reverse psychology type way.. try complimenting him a lot and thanking him a lot for the things he does.. maybe instead of getting into fights about it if you stt doing that he will GET THE HINT?

gl hun!

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i compliment him all the time....and when i say that i really mean ALL the time. Everyday

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oh man! ok... try having a serious convo with him. Communication is so important and you shouldnt have to enter a marriage with someone who is making you feel crappy.

what about premarital counceling?

its really important that you both talk about this and try to work it out... from what you are saying he used to be more affectionate and complimentary to you so its not that he cant/has a hard time/or is just how he is - he is capable and has done it.. you both just need to figure out why its stopped

i really hope you feel better and that this situation improves!!

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Posted by Jamnike

so im upset kinda with FH..... he just never does anything romantic or helps around the house. we fight about it all the time and he tries for a few days and then its out the window...i never had a dad or father figure so i guess i have this crazy high standard as to what i think a husband and father should be....but am i crazy to want any help or affection?? he rarely holds me in public, he talks to me like im just some person, gets mad at me very easy...i dont know if its wedding stress or what but im very sad :(

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Awww. That *****. I'm sorry. Feel better. I hope you guys work it out.

my FH is the same way. He thinks he deserves a big reward just for vacuuming..and for the rest of the year he will hold it over my head (I always do the dishes..when is the last time you did them?

Uuuumm..every day? )

Just because he does something once he forgets about the other 364 days of the year.

He's DEFINATELY not into PDA and I getthat--im not really either. Sometimes it feels like were more like buddies hanging out. But once in awhile he'll do something really sweet or say something nice that makes me remember why I love him.