Sad Lady I met at Lunch...

FeliciaDA...this is why I posted this. I debated whether or not to put a cloud over everyone's Friday but it gave me a wake up call! A hell of a good one. Aside from agonizing on all the details of a wedding....let's get the marriage details down!
FH and I are at eachother's throats sometimes over wedding stuff....maybe we should be in eachother's arms. These lady was brought to my attention today to give me one hell of a wake up call! He is my everything and I would be lost without him and you know what...these days I bet he doesn't even feel that way. I bet you he thinks this wedding means everything to me. So, as I type this words with tears in my eyes, I beg of you to all wake up, if you haven't....and realize just how lucky we are to even have the chance to plan a wedding and for those of us who are spending big bucks which unfortunately is unevitable...let's be grateful! No one said we have to have a wedding!

I agree, it's too easy to get wrapped up in the little things.

I almost lost my FH that day. I don't want to get into details but I thank God everyday he is here. We hardly ever fight. If I feel like being pissy or getting in a fight I just think about that and just smile and know how happy I am that he is here. We also work together and I NEVER get sick of him. I love ALL the time we spend together. Definitely a wake up call flacataca. Here is your great big hug

Kim

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Posted by SandraLynn

A girl I commuted w/ on Metro North, she and her boyfriend went to CA for a week, got engaged on a Sunday, flew home, met w/ the priest on Monday night and 9/11 the next day he was gone...I was shocked, and I can only imagine how she felt, (i hope i got my 'days' correct)---they were engaged only 3 days...it was/is sooo sad!

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Oh my goodness that is so horrible. I can't believe it will be 3 years ago this September. Sometimes I feel like it was yesterday and sometimes I feel like it was so long ago. I still have bad dreams about that day. I will never forget.

Kim

omg, that is so sad i hope she finds happiness again one day

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Posted by KimberlyBride

I almost lost my FH that day. I don't want to get into details but I thank God everyday he is here. We hardly ever fight. If I feel like being pissy or getting in a fight I just think about that and just smile and know how happy I am that he is here. We also work together and I NEVER get sick of him. I love ALL the time we spend together. Definitely a wake up call flacataca. Here is your great big hug

Kim

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Oh my goodness!! Thank God!!! But Im also glad to hear how much you appreciate him. Its hard to deal with something like that, but it makes you love him even more

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Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I would seriously go nuts!!!!!!!!! I am not even being dramatic or anything! I lost him, I don't know what I would do. That goes for my mom, sisters or grandma too!!!!!!!! OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!! I wanna go home!

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you're so cute...where do you work???

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Posted by FLaCaTaCa

FeliciaDA...this is why I posted this. I debated whether or not to put a cloud over everyone's Friday but it gave me a wake up call! A hell of a good one. Aside from agonizing on all the details of a wedding....let's get the marriage details down!
FH and I are at eachother's throats sometimes over wedding stuff....maybe we should be in eachother's arms. These lady was brought to my attention today to give me one hell of a wake up call! He is my everything and I would be lost without him and you know what...these days I bet he doesn't even feel that way. I bet you he thinks this wedding means everything to me. So, as I type this words with tears in my eyes, I beg of you to all wake up, if you haven't....and realize just how lucky we are to even have the chance to plan a wedding and for those of us who are spending big bucks which unfortunately is unevitable...let's be grateful! No one said we have to have a wedding!

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I could not have said it any better !

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Posted by BMD'sPeanut

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Posted by FLaCaTaCa

I would seriously go nuts!!!!!!!!! I am not even being dramatic or anything! I lost him, I don't know what I would do. That goes for my mom, sisters or grandma too!!!!!!!! OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!! I wanna go home!

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you're so cute...where do you work???

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5th Avenue and 43rd Street, a block away from Bryant Park

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Posted by FLaCaTaCa

FeliciaDA...this is why I posted this. I debated whether or not to put a cloud over everyone's Friday but it gave me a wake up call! A hell of a good one. Aside from agonizing on all the details of a wedding....let's get the marriage details down!
FH and I are at eachother's throats sometimes over wedding stuff....maybe we should be in eachother's arms. These lady was brought to my attention today to give me one hell of a wake up call! He is my everything and I would be lost without him and you know what...these days I bet he doesn't even feel that way. I bet you he thinks this wedding means everything to me. So, as I type this words with tears in my eyes, I beg of you to all wake up, if you haven't....and realize just how lucky we are to even have the chance to plan a wedding and for those of us who are spending big bucks which unfortunately is unevitable...let's be grateful! No one said we have to have a wedding!

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I could not have said it any better !